Zaze yezimfihlo zokuphumelela yabakhulu

Cishe akunakwenzeka ukuthi umhlaba wonke kukhona okungenani oyedwa ababengeke dream umuntu aphumelele, ecebile, yimpumelelo. Nokho, kwabanye, leliphupho futhi uhlala njengelingafezekiseki nabanye sifinyelele elamukelekile. Kodwa kungani ngempela okwenzeka? Omunye umuntu angase athi ukuthi umuntu ngamunye ulindele ekuphileni kwakhe ukuthi wayezalelwe.

Akubalulekile ngeze ukuphupha we kungenzeki, uma bezalwa babe isinxibi nje. Lies umphuphi phezu kombhede futhi njengoba kusasa ekhanda lakhe uziwisa phansi isikhwama semali. Futhi lapha, phezu kombhede. Futhi lapha usevele ocebile futhi ezimele, uqala ukuchitha ukuceba ngokuthanda kwabo. Phawula nakho ngamandla ethu. Amacebo ophuphayo yayingenamithetho umbono lokusiza izingane eziyizintandane noma abaswele abadala. Nokho, ngisho nezinhlelo ezenziwe ngokucophelela izindleko ezidingekayo kuhlanganisiwe izinto ngempela unoriginal.

Ingabe kukhona izimfihlo zempumelelo ekuphileni? Mhlawumbe baye beveza labo bani isiphetho wakhipha nengcebo, futhi inkazimulo lapho umntwana ezalwa? Eqinisweni, kukhona izimfihlo zempumelelo. Ngamunye elele phezu kombhede umphuphi kumele wazi ukuthi ukuze uqaphele iphupho lakhe ekuphileni kungenzeka kuphela izindleko umsebenzi esindayo nsuku zonke. Ngokuyinhloko ngokwabo - akuthandayo zabo, imikhuba kanye nokuhuheka nezinkanuko.

Yezimfihlo zokuphumelela yabakhulu kukhona kufinyeleleke kuwo wonke umuntu. Uhlolisisa isiphetho abantu abadumile futhi kuphumelele ngokwengeziwe. Ezimweni ezingavamile, baqala ukuphila nobumpofu kanye isiphetho kungukuthi njalo yithela endleleni yabo nge rose amacembe. Kodwa isifiso ukuze uqaphele iphupho umkakhe amthandayo balaba bantu yakhe sinamandla kakhulu kangangokuba, wenze iphutha kanye, abayeki futhi ungaphambuki indlela ekhethiwe.

Hard ukukholelwa namaphupho yokwenziwa, kodwa yezimfihlo zokuphumelela yabakhulu siwukuthi bangamalungu eziningi umsebenzi onzima futhi endleleni eya iphupho. Benza amaphutha nokuwa, kodwa ivuke futhi aqhubeke elitsheni.

Abaningi bakholelwa yezimfihlo zokuphumelela yabakhulu - imfundo enhle etholwe emayunivesithi adumile zomhlaba. Nokho, lesi sitatimende kuyinto debatable. Yiqiniso, imfundo yomuntu yesimanje kubalulekile, kodwa khumbula uSteve Imisebenzi, owayefunda izinyanga eziyisithupha eyunivesithi, kodwa lokhu akuzange kumvimbe ukwenza ukutholakala emkhakheni izithombe kanye nezokuxhumana mobile.

Noma esinye isibonelo ngokulinganayo umxhwele. UHenry Ford akusho kokuba imfundo ephakeme wenza intuthuko Amazing embonini yezezimoto. NoJohn D. Rockefeller ngasiyeka isikole ukuze iqale ukusebenza. Uilyam Shekspir akuzange wathola ngisho esikoleni, kodwa sekungamakhulu eminyaka imisebenzi yakhe ezibhekwa yobuciko izincwadi emhlabeni.

Esikhathini sethu, yezimfihlo zokuphumelela yabakhulu ichazwe ngu yokuthi ukubeka imali yokuqala wathola ngokwako - seminar ahlukahlukene, self-ngcono izifundo kungaba umcebo real komuntu entsha. Abantu abaphumelelayo yokwesaba ezingaziwa, kokuphazamisa ngezinye izikhathi ukwenza isinyathelo esibaluleke kakhulu futhi kubalulekile empumelelweni. Njengoba wenza iphutha ngaso leso sikhathi, kukhishwe kuyo isifundo bese usebenzisa okuholela (ngisho-negative) isipiliyoni esendleleni yawo esizayo elitsheni.