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Emhlabeni umuntu angikho: ukuthi kuyini, kanjani futhi kungani kubalulekile ukuthuthukisa

Thina zijwayele bantu abalusizi kakhulu, futhi wabona injabulo sobala, bavame ukucabanga ukuthi abantu awulungile nge psyche. Kuyinto evamile ukuba abe look, burdened nga ngalindelekile ezinye izinkinga. Isihloko liyakhuluma ngokuphela emhlabeni kwangaphakathi yomuntu: ukuthi kuyini, kanjani futhi kungani kudingeka sihlakulelwe.

Ukubaluleka ekukhuleni okungokomoya

Kusukela abantu beze kunyakaza omubi ukuthi iyakhula esebenzisa abezindaba, is ngobulili ngokuyinhloko izindaba mayelana izingozi ezinzima futhi yabika ngezinhlekelele. Ukwaziswa okunjalo ubhekwa ezithakazelisa kakhulu nefanele. Abantu abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi umgomo oyinhloko ekuphileni, futhi ilungelo - ukufeza ukuchuma ngokwezinto ezibonakalayo. Empeleni, lokhu kubuye isici esibalulekile ngentuthuko yomuntu kodwa-ke akudingekile ukuba wakubeka ngaphambili nangasemuva.

Isitatimende sokuthi nemicabango impahla, abantu abanjalo ngokuvamile ungathathi sina. Abaningi bamane nje ulihlanganisa ukubaluleka ukuba ecucuza njalo ekhanda. Kodwa izwe lethu igcwele umgomo akuzona izinto ezibonakalayo, kodwa okuthuthuka ngokomoya. Futhi umcabango iyingxenye egcwele, ngakho-ke kuba okusemandleni abo ukuze enze abantu bajabule, noma okuphambene nalokho.

Kanjani ukuzwa uthando nenjabulo

kude kangakanani nathi ajabule futhi imizwelo eyakhayo? Zimane nje ziyizindaba ezimbili at ibanga nhliziyonye, futhi uqale ukuhlola abo kusiza izwe loko umuntfu langiko ngekhatsi. Kuyini lokhu? I real "Mina", umphefumulo. Lokho kwenzeka, udinga ukumisa ukugeleza imicabango, uphumule futhi ugxile amandla akho kwangaphakathi. Noma iyiphi ikhwalithi njalo iqala ukuthuthukisa, uma sokuwunikeza ukunakwa ngaphezulu kokujwayelekile.

Lapho umuntu has a lot of imibono, ngalinye elikwazi Kudinga ukuzikhandla futhi amandla, amandla akhe kwangaphakathi ichithwa ize. Ngakho-ke kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ufunde indlela ukuhlela izithelo umsebenzi ubuchopho. Kungenjalo kwaqina kwadambisa isimo esasishubile, umuntu uqala ukuzizwa sokuvaleleka.

Umehluko emazinga ukuthuthukiswa komuntu

Ngeshwa, sivamile ihlangabezane emphakathini wanamuhla isibonelo izwe umuntu angikho alikhulumi a nentuthuko engokomoya eside. Ake sibheke izibonelo ezimbili. Alexei Petrovich wasebenza njengomphathi we-eminyakeni engaba ngu-7, wayengumuntu okhuthele futhi uyazi kahle ibhizinisi lakhe. Kodwa esikhundleni inhloko yomnyango yemfanelo creative futhi isisebenzi abasha. Alexei Petrovich harbored igqubu ikhanda lenkampani, inhloko esisha somnyango, kanye nosebenza nabo. Intukuthelo isibambo emphinjeni wakhe, ngenxa lokho okwaqala lapho ubuhlungu. Intukuthelo, okuyinto bagxila esiswini, wanezela ngokwengeziwe futhi izinkinga wamathumbu.

Noma isibonelo okuphambene emhlabeni umuntu angikho ngaphakathi. Omunye umsebenzi enkampanini efanayo - Tatiana - futhi isicelo sokuba isikhulu singenamuntu. Wasebenza iminyaka 4 futhi likhombise imiphumela emihle. Kodwa ngemva ukuqashwa kukaNksz elinye ilungu abasebenzi ukwenza esiphethweni okuphambene: unquma ukuxhumana okwengeziwe izimfanelo uhlamvu ukuthi unakho okwamanje. Ngaphezu kwalokho, waqala ukuza emsebenzini nenkokhiso omuhle, kanye nosebenza nabo ajabule futhi amandla.

ingaphakathi

Imicabango yena, amaphupho, fantasies, imizwa siqu wenze umhlaba omkhulu esiyingqayizivele kwangaphakathi yomuntu. Ukuthi kuyini, abantu abaningi benza hhayi ngokugcwele, ngakho ungacabangi kufanelekile ukuqondisa oda khona. Eqinisweni, akufanele ucabange ngakho, ngoba ungaba amabutho omkhulu ongabonakali.

Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi hhayi yikuphi ukuhlakanipha zathola okuhlangenwe nakho eminyakeni wokuphila, futhi abantu babo bangaphakathi izwe thembeke evikelwe kunoma isiphi isimo. Iqukethe izimpendulo zemibuzo, izixazululo inkinga ngayinye, imbangela yonke imiphumela.

A isibonisi real umsebenzi komphefumulo kungumcabango emhlabeni kwangaphakathi yomuntu. Kuyini, uma sikubeka ngamanye amagama? Kuyinto iso engabonakali nemisebenti lehlose nentuthuko yomuntu siqu, ekuqongeleleni amandla angaphakathi, ukuzethemba, ukwandisa ubungqabavu.

kulomhlaba ajwayelekile futhi enembile

Eqinisweni, emhlabeni zangaphandle engaphakathi umuntu iya ku isandla. Ngisho kulomhlaba onjalo esobala necacile kungaphansi ongabonakali. izibonelo okulula ukukhuluma ngawo, ngoba kalula esihlukile igwala abanesibindi, siqiniseka professional kusukela engangabazi amateur, umuntu self-ukuhlonipha Ukungasilaleli nokunye.

Ukuthula kwangaphakathi kuyadingeka ukugcwalisa konke ungathanda ukuba emhlabeni impahla. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi umuntu futhi bajabule. Kulokhu, injabulo iyeke push off ezweni elingaphandle, kodwa kunalokho, kuba ihlupha. Phela, yiliphi leli zwe kwangaphakathi yomuntu, loba amandla cwe ukuthi badinga kuphela ukuhlela nokuqondisa?

Njengoba umhlaba wakho wangaphakathi ukuba benze okwengeziwe

Kuyasiza ngempela nje bhekisisa uzizwa umoya umoya, ubuhle kanye nokunemba kwezitshalo, ukukhanya kwelanga. Okuningi baqonde kangcono ngokwabo ivumela sizindla nemvelo, isifiso uhlangane nalo. Lokhu ukuzindla engcono akwenziwanga engosini nejabulisayo yezwe, noma ukwethula ngokwabo khona, ngoba ubunjalo kanye nezwe umuntu angikho zihlobene nomunye.

Ukuze athole inkululeko kwangaphakathi kubalulekile ukuthola induku. izimiso ezingeguquleke kokuziphatha nokungokomoya ukuzethemba wanezela. Kodwa akekho umuntu ongaba eyenza ukusebenza engaphakathi kwakuzoba umuntu oyedwa, ngoba wonke umuntu ukukwenza bebodwa.

Njengoba izintambo ziyobe ziphethwe ngamunye wethu kukhona umcebo real, lapho abaningi ngisho nokuwabona. Ngoba liyini izwe umuntu angikho ngaphakathi, kodwa ohlangothini okumangazayo ubuntu kumuntu ngamunye kithi? Sonke siyafuna zezempilo, injabulo, sikufisela inhlanhla nezinkinga kancane empilweni. Ngakho, kungani ungahloli ubeka izinto ngononina e ngokwakho? Lokhu kuzoshintsha khona impahla ohlangothini oyifunayo.

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