Indlela uyasinda ekufeni indoda yakhe isekhona ngendlela entsha

Century abesifazane ngokuvamile isikhathi eside kunaleso yabo ontanga-amadoda. Ngakho-ke, abafelokazi abaningi. abesifazane abaningi abane-umyeni okhathalelayo bazizwa elahlekile injongo yokuphila. Lokhu kuyiqiniso ikakhulukazi ngokuphathelene namakhosikazi bathembele kakhulu nasengqondweni kusukela isuke komunye ozithandayo emhlabeni. Indlela uyasinda ekufeni umyeni wakhe?

Okokuqala, udinga ukuzwakalisa imizwa, futhi azikho imithetho, yilowo nalowo wesifazane ngikhale futhi kufanele kwenziwe kakhulu ngendlela ofuna. Nokungakhethi ekutholweni inani leminyaka eyabelwa ngomuntu othile, akufanele ufune - yonke intando kaNkulunkulu. Ngokuvamile uhlobo futhi abantu abalungile phoqoka sha kanye Bastards siphilele Esegugile. Mhlawumbe uNkulunkulu nje ukunika isikhathi esiningi abantu ababi, ukuze bakwazi ukulungisa impilo yakho.

Akubalulekile nje ukuvala, kunalokho, ushayele umngane omuhle bese ubatshela ukuthi udinga ukunakwa ngaphezulu okokuqala ngemva kokushona komyeni wakhe. Ngokuvamile abantu besaba izinhlobo ezifanayo ukufa futhi baqala ukuba ziziphathe kahle, onezinkinga kanye ukudala izimo esiyinkinga. Kuyadingeka ukuba limthethelele futhi baqonde abangane, ngoba umbuzo "Bangaki ukuze usinde kokushona komyeni wakhe?" Wena aseqalile bazibuze muva. Umsebenti wakho ngemva kuyoba esigabeni sokuqala ubuhlungu, zama ukuthola abangane abasha. Yiqiniso, akuwona wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi ukuze usinde ekufeni kothandekayo, abangane ikakhulukazi abasha, kodwa zama ukuthola izihloko ezintsha, okwakungase kuthathe ikhanda lakho futhi kube esikhundleni izingxoxo nezinkumbulo umyeni wakhe.

Umsebenzi wakho futhi banakekele wamuka emhlabeni omunye umuntu. Ngemva kokufa usizo kungaba kuphela ngomthandazo nangokunxusa ukukhunjulwa zonke izinsuku sabazali esontweni. Umuntu akakwazi nokulungisa noma yini emehlweni kaNkulunkulu, uma usefile. Kodwa usaphila, unga. Uma umyeni kakhulu bonile futhi unecala phambi kwakho, kufanele sithandaze ngayo ikakhulukazi onzima. Kulokhu, kuphela impilo yakho ngakhethi ungagcina, ngakho udinga ukushintsha ukuphila bebheke ingokomoya enkulu kuwo "amaphuzu?" Futhi wena ngaye.

Ikhalenda kuyoba ngosuku entsha - kwaba usuku lokufa kwakhe, kodwa ngosuku lwakhe lokuzalwa njengoba, uSuku Valentine kanye nosuku lomshado ngeke amaholide ayisekho, futhi ngezinye siyadabuka. Kufanele uzilungiselele kusenesikhathi, kokunquma ukuthi yini oyoyenza kulezi zinsuku, ukuze singathwesi sekwephuzile.

Kanjani ukuze usinde kokushona komyeni wakhe, kangangokuba impilo alithintwa? Kufanele uzame ukushintsha indlela yabo yokuphila, ikakhulukazi kufanele uqaphe ukudla, ngoba abaningi bathambekele ayilungile yokudla nokuziphatha emva umcimbi kanzima. Lapha kukhona ezimbili ezeqisayo: ngokuvamile yeka ukudla, futhi ukuzilawula. Gxila umsoco, uzokwenza ukuba kancane ukuba ubalekele ecabanga ngokufa kothandekayo.

Kubalulekile futhi kabusha usuku lwakho, okungukuthi ukubhala izinto ezintsha nsuku zonke futhi uzame ukusilandela. usuku lwakho kufanele uchichime imisebenzi yasekhaya, ungase ufune ukuthuthukisa letisha ngenalithi. Uma ungenza okuthile ngezandla zakho, isimo sizoba ngcono. Usinde ekufeni kothandekayo kulula uma umatasa kakhulu. Yiqiniso, ukuphila akulona ngokufanayo njengoba kwakunjalo ngaphambili, uzoba nesizungu, kodwa qiniseka ukubheka amaningi ngangokunokwenzeka yokuxhumana, nakuba umuntu ofuna ukuvala efulethini futhi ngikhale.

Uma une izingane, qiniseka ukuba zifune usizo kubo. Bayoba ukuqonda ukuthi unina ubuhlungu futhi nginesizungu. Bacele ukukubona kaningi, futhi uma usunayo abazukulu, singakwazi anikeze usizo olwengeziwe ukuze azinakekele. Ngokuvamile uzithatha naye ku ngezimpelasonto namaholidi, izingane ezincane zikuphazamise imicabango udangele, nokusiza ukugxila izinkinga ukuphokophela, kunokuba kokufa kothandekayo.

Indlela uyasinda ekufeni umyeni wakhe? Yamukela kwenzekeni bese uzama agxila nezigigaba, ukufuna lapho unabanye abantu. Nasi isifinyezo emfushane sihloko. Yiqiniso, imibono omuhle ukuthi, bathi, ukuphila kuyaqhubeka, kuleli cala, asihlobene. Yebo, khona kwaba luhlupho, kodwa une namanje eziningi izinkinga empilweni.