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Indlela yokuthola ukuthi ngabe ingelosi yokulondoloza ikuvakashele: izimpawu ezingu-11

Impela umqondo wokuthi ingelosi yokuqapha isibheke kithi ingaletha induduzo enkulu. Abanye bakholelwa kuye njengomuntu ongokomoya, kanti abanye bakholelwa ukuthi ngumphefumulo womuntu othandekayo oshonile osisiza ngokuphila.

Kodwa ngisho noma umuntu ekholelwa ezingelosini noma ecabanga ukuthi angaba khona, kungaba nzima kakhulu ukuba azi lapho eseduze naye.

Njengoba wazi, kunezindlela ezilula zokuthola igama lengelosi yakho yokuqapha. Ngokufanayo, kunezibonakaliso eziningi ezibonisa ukuvakashelwa kwakhe. Lezi zimpawu zaqaphela amakholwa amaningi iminyaka eminingi. Manje ungakwazi futhi ukufunda ukuthi unqume kanjani ukuthi ingelosi yokulondoloza ikuvakashele. Mhlawumbe awukholelwa kulo mzuzwana, kodwa lezi zimpawu ezivela ngosuku nosuku phakathi nokuphila kwakho kuzokusiza uthole izimpendulo zemibuzo oyifunayo.

Ingelosi yomlindi ifika kuwe ephusheni

Abantu abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi amaphupho amafasitela emiphefumulweni yethu. Kodwa bangakwazi ukukhuluma ngobungcwele bengelosi. Amakholwa athi, ingelosi ingakuvakashela ephusheni. Ngakho uyakukutshela ukuthi uyakubheka. Angakushiya umlayezo, noma umane nje asho ukuthi ukhona.

Uyabona amabhola anemibala engavamile

Uma ubona ukukhanya okungaqondakali noma ibhola elingavamile, ungacabanga ngokuqala izinkinga ngombono. Kodwa-ke, amakholwa athi, amabhola anjalo nezibani zindlela yokuhambisa izingelosi.

Ungabona ibhola elinjalo empilweni yakho yansuku zonke noma ungathola ezithombeni ezikuzungezile. Abaningi bathi lezi zibani eziyingqayizivele ziyisibonakaliso esiqinisekisayo sokuthi ulawulwa yingelosi.

Uzwa iphunga elizumayo

Uma ungakwazi ukuchaza iphunga elingalindelekile, lingasebenza njengesibonakaliso sokuba khona kwezingelosi. Amakholwa akholelwa ukuthi lezi ziphunga elimnandi zingaba yingelosi yakho esebenzisa ukuboleka isandla bese umtshela ukuthi unani. Ungaphunga ukudla okumnandi, izimbali noma amakha, okuvame ukusetshenziswa ngumuntu oshonile eduze kwakho.

Uthole inhlanzi emhlophe

Inhlanzi iyindlela ephephile futhi enokwethenjelwa yokuba ingelosi yakho ikubonise ukuba khona kwayo. Lesi sibonakaliso kubhekwa njengento evamile kakhulu kulabo abangashiywa yizingelosi. Iphoyinti elimhlophe lingase lisendleleni yakho ngisho nasendaweni engenakwenzeka kakhulu futhi ivele ngesikhathi lapho udinga ukusekelwa khona kakhulu. Ngakho ingelosi yakho ikuvumela ukuthi wazi ukuthi usekuseduze futhi awodwa.

Ingane ibona ukuthi awukwazi yini

Izingane nezilwane ezifuywayo zingabona izingelosi eziqaphayo, ngisho nalapho abanye bengaboni lutho. Bathi izingelosi ziletha abantwana nezilwane isimo sokuphumula.

Ungabona ukuthi isilwane sibheke endaweni ethile egumbini, noma ingane iyamomotheka komuntu, nakuba engaboni muntu ngaleso sikhathi. Uma uqaphela ukuthi ingane ibonakala ikhuluma nomuntu futhi ungaboni, khona-ke ingelosi ilungile eduze kwakho.

Ubona ingelosi emafwini

Njengengane, kungenzeka ukuthi uchithe isikhathi esiningi uzama ukubona ezinye izibalo emafwini. Kodwa abanye abantu bathi ukuma kwamanye amafu kungaba isibonakaliso sokuba khona kwengelosi yomlindi.

Amafu angakhumbuza ngempela ingelosi noma athathe ezinye izinhlobo ezijabulisayo, isibonelo, inhliziyo noma enye uphawu ebonakalayo kuwe.

Ubona izinombolo zezingelosi ezindaweni zomphakathi

Indlela evamile kakhulu ingelosi ezozama ukuyikhathalela ngayo izibalo.

Lezi zingaba izinombolo ezibalulekile kuwe, ngokwesibonelo, izinsuku zokuzalwa noma izikhumbuzo noma izibalo eziphindaphinda umlingo ezifana "333" noma "11:11". Lezi zinombolo zivela ezimweni zansuku zonke futhi zingaba indlela yakho yokuphepha yokuheha.

Uzwa ushintsho olungenakuqondakala ekushiseni

Njengephunga elingalindelekile, ushintsho lokushisa lungabonisa ukuthi kukhona ingelosi. Abantu bazizwa lezi zinguquko ngamafomu ahlukene. Ungase uzizwe ubanda kakhulu noma ukushisa okungazelelwe. Ngakho ingelosi yakho ikunika ukuthokoza okutholile.

Uzwa amazwi angenayo

Ngeke ukhulume ngokoqobo nengelosi yomlindi. Nokho, lokhu akusho ukuthi akazami ukuxhumana nawe. Labo abakholelwa ezingilosi bathi bazwa amazwi angenalutho emoyeni okhululekile. Lelizwi elide elimnyama lingasho ukuthi ingelosi yakho izama ukukhuluma nawe. Noma ingabe nje kuyindlela yokukuqinisekisa ukuthi usondele.

Ingabe uzizwa ukuthi awodwa?

Wonke umuntu ubhekana nesinye isikhathi nomuzwa wokuthi akayedwa. Kungaba ngumqondo wesithupha kuphela noma ukuhamba kwezinwele ngemuva kwekhanda. Amakholwa amaningi azizwa ngempela lapho ingelosi engumgcini ikhona nabo. Bathi bayazi mayelana nokuba khona kwezingelosi, noma ngabe bodwa ekamelweni elingenalutho.

Uzwa umbukiso phezulu kwekhanda lakho

Amakholwa amaningi abika enye inzwa ethize - inzwa yokubuthwa ngemuva kwekhanda. Kungathatha isimo sokushisa okungazelelwe. Abantu abaningi bathi kukhona uxhumano olunamandla phakathi komqhele wakho kanye nengelosi yokugcina. Lokhu ukulinganisa kungabonisa ukuthi ingelosi yakho ifuna ukukhuluma nawe.

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