Kuyini isikhathi esingcono okukhulelwa ingane?

umzali Zibe Abantu Abadala Abavuthiwe - lena esikhona manje emphakathini. Ngokusho kochwepheshe, abantu abaningi sebekholelwa ukuthi babe obaba nomama kudingeka ukulungiselela kusengaphambili isisekelo impahla ngokulungisa impilo yabo yokwakha ama-career ukuthi uzothola ukuqhubeka esikhathini esizayo. Kuphela ngemva kwalokho abazali wemfanelo aqala ukukhetha isikhathi esingcono nje ebamba isisu. Lokhu kwenziwa kanjani?

Ngaphambili, ososayensi babekholelwa ukuthi inkathi awahlobene ngekusasa lempilo yesintu ingane futhi awukwazi kuthinte ukuthuthukiswa kokubeletha. Nokho, ukukhulelwa engcono kwathiwa bazitshela ukuthi umsuka ecebeni kangcono ekwindla - isikhathi lapho umzimba female is ngokugcwele ithole ophethe amavithamini ngenkathi izithelo nemifino, ukujabulela ilanga - nje amandla a esithwele ephelele futhi elingenazinkinga ingane. Kodwa ucwaningo lwamuva olwenziwe ososayensi kusukela Princeton University phakathi kuka-1994 no-2006, yabonisa ukuthi isikhathi esingcono okukhulelwa ingane - hhayi ekwindla isikhathi.

Ekuqaleni, umbuzo ukuthi ososayensi baye bazibuza kwaba: "Kungani abantwana abazalwa ebusika, ababi nempilo enhle ukwedlula" ihlobo "osanda kuzalwa?" Ngaphambili kwakucatshangwa ukuthi isizathu salokho - nenkathi ebandayo futhi umsebenzi kubhubhane izifo ezibangelwa amagciwane ezizamazamisa impilo ingane ngokushesha nje ngemva kokuzalwa. Kodwa ngemuva kophenyo wambula ngokwengeziwe ukuthi isandulela Umkhuhlane futhi SARS akuhlangene nakho. Ngandlela-thile, indima esemqoka eyadlalwa nokuphazamisa ukusimama komnotho. Kwavela ukuthi engxenyeni yokuqala yonyaka abesifazane ikakhulukazi, athole inzalo bengenayo imfundo ephakeme, futhi ungashadile. Kuyinto kulesi sigaba sabantu ibonise up, ngokuvamile esingaphansi banezingane eziphile kahle. Futhi ngokusekelwe imiphumela, bezalwa futhi nobusika. Ngakho, uma ufuna ukubala ngesikhathi sokuhlala kwesisu ukuba azale ingane enempilo, ezinyangeni zokuqala zonyaka ukuze yesabe Yiqiniso, akudingekile, kodwa futhi ukuba balwele ngalesi sikhathi ekuqaleni sokukhulelwa akulona ikhambi best - namanje yomzimba wowesifazane ngalesi sikhathi ezigugile ngempela ebusika beriberi, futhi kungcono yokuqinisa kusengaphambili.

Kodwa lokho isiphi isikhathi esingcono kakhulu okukhulelwa ingane? Ososayensi bathole ukuthi ukuze ingane yazalwa eqinile, enempilo futhi nesisindo umzimba omuhle, ukuze isebenze ukubukeka kudingeka wakhe ehlobo - ngokusho izibalo, abesifazane ababa abakhulelwe kusuka ngoJuni kuze Agasti, izingane zizalwa isisindo emzimbeni obukhulu kunobukaJohane nabanye. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kusho ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokuba akhulelwe ingane ofanele, ngoba umzimba ephumula ezinyangeni zasehlobo, kwenza kube nokwenzeka ukuba bondliwe nokondliwa bebodwa kanye nezinto ezidingekayo, futhi samaholidi isipiliyoni ukucindezeleka kuyancipha, okuyinto kusiza kakhulu inkambo sokukhulelwa esikhathini esizayo.

Kodwa-May kwaba okungenani inyanga efanelekayo ukuhlela kuzuze izizukulwane ezaziyolandela. Kwatholakala ukuthi abesifazane ababeye ayakhulelwa kule nyanga, ukukhulelwa ihlala ngaphansi kwesonto ehlobo "beremenyushek". Lokhu kamuva kwenza ngokwayo wazizwa, ezithinta impilo yengane. Sekukonke, Ngakho-ke, isikhathi phakathi kuka-Januwari no-May - lokhu akulona isikhathi esingcono nje ebamba isisu. izivikeli mzimba Lezi zezingane akuyona enamandla kakhulu, kungaba nezinkinga bokuzwa futhi embonweni, futhi ukulibaziseka kwamabanga okukhula.

Ngakho-ke, uma uya nje babe nabantwana ulinde isizini ihlobo - udle imifino nezithelo, uphumule, uzibixe elangeni ogwini futhi ekhululekile futhi uqhubekele conception impilo entsha, ngiphilile futhi nginamandla.