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Kuyini ukuphana komphefumulo?

Umphefumulo womuntu awunakulinganiswa futhi ugcwele izimfanelo ezinhle kanye nokujula. Ekuphileni kukhona abantu abahlukile kithi ngokwemvelo, imibono kanye nezici zokuziphatha. Kunezici eziningi zobuntu, okubizwa ngokuthi nguNkulunkulu. Lokhu kuhlanganisa ukupha. Futhi-ke kuba okuthakazelisayo, yini ukupha?

Incazelo yemqondo

Embuzweni wukuphi ukuphana, kunzima ukuphendula ngamagama amabili. Lo mqondo uwandiswe futhi uhlanganiswe ngezibonelo ezintsha nezi ezintsha ezandisa incazelo yaleli gama. Kodwa okokuqala lokhu kuyimfanelo enhle, umuntu angasho ukuthi, unomusa. Ngakho-ke, ake siphendule ngokuqondile umbuzo wukuphi ukupha. Lesi sakhiwo somuntu sinikezwa uthando, ukunakekelwa, izinzuzo ezibonakalayo, ukwabelana ngezidingo nomakhelwane womuntu, ngaphandle kokufuna lutho ngokubuyisela.

Ukupha komphefumulo kuyisibonakaliso sokuziphatha komuntu okujulile, imvelo enhle kanye nokubonakaliswa komusa ngesilinganiso esingenamkhawulo nangokwengeziwe, ngaphandle kokulindela kwesenzo esivelele. Uhlangane nabantu abaphanayo? Uma yebo, mhlawumbe uqaphele ukushisa okuvela kubo, yeka injabulo etholakala ekukhulumisaneni okuncane nomuntu onomusa. Vumelana ukuthi bafanelwe inhlonipho enkulu futhi bafanelwe ukwazisa. Akusizo ngalutho ukuthi umuntu ophanayo ukhulunywa njengomuntu omkhulu.

Okubalulekile emphakathini

Umphakathi wethu unezinsiza eziyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu zokuphatha nobuhlobo. Kodwa phakathi kobudlelwane bemihla ngemihla kukhona ubuhle, okubizwa nangokuthi ukuphana kwabantu. Eqinisweni, empilweni yomuntu wonke, izimo zenzeka ukuthi yena ngokwakhe akakwazi ukubhekana nazo. Bese usiza izihlobo nabangane. Kodwa-ke, okuhlangenwe nakho kubonisa ukuthi nje ukusizwa kwezihlobo kungenxa yokulindela kwezenzo zokuphindisela, okungenani ukubonga njalo. Enye inkambo yezenzakalo ayikhishwa, uma umuntu enhliziyweni ehlanzekile, efisa okuhle, unikeza ingxenye yesikhathi sakhe noma izindlela zakhe. Esimweni sokuqala, izinkolelo ezisekelweni zothando ziseduze nomqondo wokupha.

Isibonelo sesibili futhi sibonakaliso sokuphana. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba nabantu abanomusa emphakathini. Zifana nokukhomba kuNkulunkulu. Ake ucabange: umphakathi ugcwele abantu abahlukumezayo nabazimele. Ingabe kufanele wamukeleke kulo ngosizo lomhlaba wonke wendoda ekhubazekile ekutholeni izidakamizwa ezidingekayo noma izimoto? Impendulo icacile, ngoba lo mphakathi awutholi lutho ngalesi sizathu esihle, okubaluleke kakhulu kubantu abakhubazekile. Umuntu onjalo uyohlala eyedwa kanye nokuhlupheka kwakhe nokungabi namandla, futhi aziwa ukuthi uzophila kangakanani. Futhi enhliziyweni ephoqelekile, enamahloni, enhle, noma engenandaba (okuyinto engeyona embi) iyoba nomthelela ngendlela yayo. Ngakho-ke, ukutholakala kokuphana ezinhliziyweni zamalungu omphakathi kubalulekile.

Imicabango engekho emqondweni

Ngokuvame kakhulu, ukuphana kuhlanganisa ukusizana kanye neminikelo. Ngokuvamile, iminikelo yenzelwa ukuhlawulelwa kwezono zabo, ngakho-ke le mqondo ayinakuvunywa, ngoba kukhona inzuzo lapha. Yazi ukuthi ukuyiqiniso okungakaze kube khona kunomphetho wegolide womphefumulo, ongapheli emisebenzini yawo. Ungacabangi ukuthi uma unikeza konke, khona-ke uzohlala ucebile. Yebo, mhlawumbe ngokwezinto ezibonakalayo, kodwa hhayi ngokomoya. Izinqolobane ezingokomoya zigcwaliswa ngazo zonke izenzo eziphanayo. Umuntu ocebile emoyeni akadingi inqwaba yemali. Futhi lokhu kusho ukuthi umphefumulo ophanayo udumile hhayi nje kuphela owenzelwe, kepha futhi nokusetshenziswa okuncane.

Ukuphana yizwi lomusa

Kunzima ukwahlulela ukuthi kunini ukupha futhi ukudalula ngokugcwele umqondo walo mqondo. Kodwa kusobala ukuthi lokhu kuyimfanelo enhle kanye nomthombo ongapheli womusa, ukuba khona kukaNkulunkulu kithi. Igama ngokwalo limi ngezilimi ezihlukene, elikhuluma ngobukhona obukhona beleminyaka leminyaka kubantu. Thuthukisa ikhono lakho elingokomoya futhi ukhululeke!

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