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Luthini olwakho "ugqozi '? amathiphu Simple sendlela sifinyelele lo mgomo

"Motivation" - umqondo okuyinto manje ajwayelekile kubo bonke. Kodwa, ingabe bonke ngokugcwele lokho okushiwo yile eside kanye nendima ebalulekile idlala emphilweni wonke umuntu? Eqinisweni, isisusa - uyinto ngaphandle okuyinto kunzima kakhulu ukuphila. Lona umgomo, isizathu sokuthi abantu benze noma yini. Luthini olwakho "ugqozi '? Push, kusishukumisele esenzweni noma okungaphezu kwalokho? Ake ukubhekana!

Isiphi isinyathelo eyashukumisela? Meaning of igama elithi "ugqozi '

Empeleni, lolu hlobo ukulungisiswa noma, uma ufuna incazelo yezenzo. Kungani uthola embhedeni ekuseni? Kungani ukuya emsebenzini? Kungani ukubukela ukubukeka kwakho? Kungani incwadi? Isisusa - lena "kulandelwe" kakhulu, okuyinto esishukumisela ukuba senze futhi baziphathe ngendlela ethile. Man egijima ukuze uthole imali, ukudlala imidlalo ukuba ibe nempilo, imithi, uma igula ukuthi ube ngcono. Uma ucabanga noma yisiphi isenzo ungakwazi uziphoqe. Impendulo yombuzo kanjani ukuze kufinyelelwe lo mgomo ulula, kodwa siqale ngokucabangela ukuthi yini isisusa zangaphakathi nezangaphandle.

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Ukuba nesisusa esifanele kuyisici zangaphakathi nezangaphandle. Kwangaphandle ngokuvamile livela ngaphandle ihlobene imvelo yomuntu, impumelelo yayo ezinye izikhungo zenhlalakahle. Ngokwesibonelo, isifiso sokufunda kanzima, uthole degree nomsebenzi umklomelo, ukuba asayine isivumelwano, nokunye okunjalo.

Okuchaza "ukushukumisa ngaphandle"? ugqozi eziwumgogodla ixhunyaniswe ngqo imizwa kuphakama ngenxa nenjongo kwabantu. Isisusa zangaphakathi isenzo esithile, sithi uma kuziwa ibhizinisi lakho ozithandayo, ukwaneliseka ngokwazi ukuthi sinqobe izithiyo, imizwelo eyakhayo evela kokuphothula imisebenzi. Lokhu ukuzethemba, okubonakala endleleni eya umgomo, umuzwa wokuba namandla ukuthi kwenzeka ngesikhathi somzabalazo ngokwesaba. ugqozi Extrinsic, esikhundleni salokho - iyona umfutho ukuthi amabutho aqale ukuba bafeze lo msebenzi. Njengoba ojwayelekile, futhi zangaphakathi nezangaphandle ugqozi ukubaluleka abomkhaya wakho kufana nokuthi kunoma isiphi isimo.

Desire njengoba yisandla

A amandla ukuthi kuthinta ugqozi - isifiso. Njengoba ojwayelekile, kumelwe kube khona isizathu sokuthi kungani udinga ukwenza kanjalo uSibanibani. Noma yimuphi umsebenzi onzima noma ezimbi ezabehlela, ubuhlungu nokuhlupheka - kunjalo futhi umthombo nogqozi, uma umuntu uyazi ukuthi konke lokhu kuyinto yesikhashana nje futhi lapho abamnyama ibha uhlale emhlophe. Ngokuvamile, ngendlela, ke siyisikhuthazo negative ukwenza ukuze ayibulale ezimbi ngokushesha. Ezimweni ezinjalo, umuntu kungasiza ezihlukahlukene imishwana okwashiwo ukuthi bamenze acabange futhi ufisa ukuqhubeka ehleliwe.

Amandla nokuphikelela

Isisusa - umthombo amandla awadingayo ukufeza umgomo, kanti isibindi nokukhuthazela. Ukuze wenze okuthile ngempela ezuzisayo, ikakhulukazi uma kuziwa izinselele nobunzima, umuntu udinga ukuba uphume ozizwa ungakhululekile ukuwenza futhi benze okuthile ukuba enze ngokuphelele ungafuni, noma yini akazi kanjani. Ukuthi ukubekezela kuyosisiza ukuba aguqule isithukuthezi ibe yokuchitha isizungu ezithakazelisayo, ngokushushiswa nangobunzima kungase kubonakale omunye nje isinyathelo endleleni eya enjabulweni.

Kusho ukuthini "uzikhuthaze"? imithetho eyisisekelo

Okokuqala, qiniseka ukuthi udinga ngaso sonke isikhathi. Umgomo usinga, kodwa ukwenza kanjalo kufanele kube Finyeta ubuye ucacise kahle. Isifiso ufike ekugcineni waba namandla, kungase kudingeke uqonde ukuthi uyaphi. Vele uthi, "Ngifuna kolwandle" - lena yindlela engasebenzi kahle akwanele. Ukuze ukhethe kolwandle, indlela uthola khona, nquma ukuthi ngeke imali eholidini futhi ubone ngeso lengqondo ukuthi kuyohlala. Kulokhu, ikhambi elilodwa futhi akwanele. Kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuthi umgomo ukudansela isiginci sakhe oyithandayo uzibuthe. Ngenxa yalesi sithombe ekhiqizwa kube ngokuyikho uma kwase kwenzekile. Le nqubo ibizwa ngokuthi ngeso.

Okwesibili, ungazami ukuyeka. Ngokuvamile, abantu bacabanga okuningi inkinga, kodwa lenza okuncane njengoba ewenza. Mhlawumbe, e Ngezikhathi ezinjalo, sigqugquzelwa ukwesaba ukwehluleka, ngakho aliyinikezi. Ukuze uqinise isisusa ukuqala, thatha isinyathelo sokuqala. Ngakho, ezihambayo igxathu negxathu, uzokhokhiswa kokuthola closer closer kuze umgomo, lapho isikhathi eside begodu kabudisi ukuhamba. Hhayi lutho bathi ukufunda emaphutheni. Kubalulekile ukuba awamukele ungesabi ukwehluleka: bonke abantu bayawenza amaphutha, futhi lokhu kungokwemvelo. By the way, nakho ezimbi ngokuvamile kunethonya elihle ugqozi, ngoba akufaki amaphutha ezifanayo esikhathini esizayo. amazwi nokuzikhuthaza, akunjalo?

Okwesithathu, kudingeka ufunde ukuzibekela imigomo yesikhathi esifushane ngaphakathi inkinga enkulu. Phula iwumgomo oyinhloko ku encane, futhi nokusebenza ngamunye wabo, iphupho iyoba nakakhulu, futhi awukwazi ngisho ukubona ukuthi ufika entanjeni. Le nqubo futhi kuye kwaba nomphumela omuhle ku isisusa eziwumgogodla, futhi umuntu omusha ngamunye wenza umsebenzi ngomfutho ovuselelwe futhi Jerk.

Okwesine, musa ngilihawukele ngokwakho, uthembisa ukwenza lokhu okulandelayo. Funda bangayeki hhayi izaba. Vele wenze into elungile, ecabanga umphumela futhi umvuzo ibanga. Akunakusetshenziswa asikwazi silahle okuthile kamuva. Qala umsebenzi ne zikhathi ezinzima kakhulu - lezo musa akunike ukuthula kwengqondo.

Nokho, ithiphu zokugcina: ubekezele futhi ezicindezelayo. Khumbula ukuthi indlela elula umgomo - kuba okuhlukile ngokuqondene nalo mthetho, futhi noma kunjalo kudingeka babe nesineke kunquma.

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Manje ukuzwisisa bonyana kutjho ukuthini ukuba "esekele" Uyazi, indima eyadlalwa isisusa okufinyelela imigomo isethi. Lokhu kufana poro ungaziniki lokho okuholela indoda. Futhi ukuze ukwandisa ugqozi, udinga omningi ku ngokwabo. Kodwa akugcini lapho. Indida itholakala lokuthi lokho, ukuze ube isisusa ugqozi, kufanele ngandlela-thile sikhuthazeke ngokwayo Isifiso afinyelele imigomo nokuxazulula imisebenzi. Akunandaba ukuthi izwi elingaphakathi kuyokusiza ukuba ayeke noma imishwana okwashiwo abanye ... Uma umuntu eza kuze kube sekupheleni, uyokwenza ukuthi mkhulu kangakanani, futhi ngeke ngokuphindaphindiwe ukukwenza!

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