Ikhaya Nomkhaya, Izingane
Siyakuhalalisela godson ku usuku lokuzalwa godparents
Usuku lokuzalwa oluhle - iholide elikhanyayo. Lungisa usuku lokuzalwa inkulumo enhle akufanele abazali zemvelo kuphela, futhi labo baletha ingane esontweni. Indaba uyonika ongakhetha ezimbalwa ukuthi kufanele godson uhalalisele e temibhalo yephrozi.
iholide namaqhawe
Izwe Christian eqotho kakhulu. Lokubaluleke kakhulu enkolweni baphiwa abantu isakramente ubhapathizo. Lo mcimbi abathintekayo iphela umoya kubantu alo mkhaya lapho tot wazalwa. Ngenxa yalokho, phakathi isiko, ingane ithola hhayi kuphela wasezulwini umnakekeli ingelosi, kodwa okwesibili, godparents. Ngakho, esiphambanweni okumele ahole ingane ukholo futhi ukusiza izeluleko ezinhle ukuze wabelane nabo ngamaholide ukufutheka.
Usuku lokuzalwa oluhle - isenzakalo esibalulekile. Godparents awukwazi nje ukuthenga isipho nice and wamukelekile indodana noma indodakazi yakhe encane, kodwa futhi ukulungiselela amazwi amnandi. Siyakuhalalisela godson kufanele uchichime ukuhlakanipha kokuphila nokufudumala. Nokho, lapho lokuzalwa Usemncane kakhulu, kumele uxhumane abazali bengane.
Ungakwazi anikelwe umama bomdabu kanye nobaba magama alandelayo: "Bathandekayo! Namuhla ekhalendeni usuku engavamile - usuku Ngemva kokuzalwa kwengane yethu. Ngifisa sengathi ngabe isineke amandla kangaka ukuze anakekele futhi ukuhlakanipha okukhulu. Vumela ingane ekhula emndenini omuhle nonothando, futhi nsuku zonke wena lezimanga ujabulile impumelelo ezintsha. "
Toast for wesikole
Isimo ehluke ngokuphelele lapho godson yakho abulawe, isibonelo, iminyaka 7. Usuku lokuzalwa oluhle kakade ubona ngokugcwele iziphakamiso zamagama. Siyakuhalalisela godson, obesanda waya esikoleni, ungaqala ngala mazwi alandelayo: "lokuzalwa Sawubona! Ngifisa sengathi ngabe isifundo merry, iholide eside kanye wesikole elula. Vumela othisha kuyoba okuthambile nawe. Funda play kakhudlwana futhi nzima, kakhulu futhi uchitha isikhathi nabangane. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, ukulalela wonke abazali, ngoba umuntu ezimbili ezibaluleke kakhulu ekuphileni kwakho. Ufuna wonke amaphupho akho kancane zigcwaliseka futhi ihlanzekile. Sethemba izipho zabo namuhla sizobe kufeza leminye izifiso zakho. "
siyakuhalalisela godson kusukela ibhapathizwa yakhe noma ummeli wesifazane kungenzeka ngakho, "kancane wami, kepha usuyindodana okusezingeni eliphezulu futhi omdala kangaka! Halala ngosuku lwakho lokuzalwa futhi ufisa sikhule indoda yangempela. Futhi kusho ukuthini ukuba abanesibindi, onesibindi, eziqinile futhi enesibindi. Yilowo mbuzo kunzima ukusiza ukuxazulula kwetsembeka kanye nobulungiswa. Kungakhathaliseki ukusekelwa nokuziqhenya ngoba umama nobaba. Tadisha ngokucophelela, ukuba zihloniphe abantu abadala futhi Mphakamiseni abangane. Ake ebuntwaneni bakho uyojabula. "
Umncintiswano yasekuqaleni
Siyakuhalalisela godson unyaka - kubalulekile kakhulu. Nokho, Kuyishwa ukuthi umntwana yena akusho khumbula amazwi amahle. Ukuze umcimbi uzokhanya, kufanele ubhale incwadi esizayo bese udala umbiko. Ukuze imiyalezo isiqophi kufanele ukulungiselela imishini imaging. Oku ukuchazela izivakashi ngokuthi sebeyakwazi lokubamba iqhaza emncintiswaneni. Njalo isivakashi kufanele ukusho amazwi ambalwa nice usuku lokuzalwa kancane phambi kwekhamera. Futhi ngemva kweminyaka eminingi, ingane uzokwazi ukuze ubuke le vidiyo isihawu.
Enye okufana le ukuzijabulisa - izinhlamvu. Siyakuhalalisela godson, ungabhala ku ephepheni. Kukhona izimvilophu kufanele eligoqiwe ebhokisini ukuthi ingane izovula eminyakeni embalwa. Ngokwesibonelo, ngosuku afa ngalo 15. Lo mdlalo kuyobenza hhayi kuphela izivakashi, dala namakarada, futhi ingane ofisa ukuthola kusukela esikhathini esidlule.
incwadi onesizotha
Yiqiniso, ukunikela emncintiswaneni esinjalo, godparents kufanele bakulungele ukubhala into kwabahle nababonelelayo. Umbhalo noma ividiyo imiyalezo kungaba kanje: "umntwana othandekayo! Namuhla uchithe ikakhulukazi. Manje kinina nokuthi naphendukela owodwa ngizelwe. Nakuba lokhu usuku lihlehlisiwe ingqondo yakho, lena isenzakalo esibaluleke kakhulu kithi, godparents yakho. Siyajabula kakhulu ngokuba niyajabula, abantu banempilo futhi bajabule. Manje thina babeka uhlobo capsule ukuthi izovula ngemuva kweminyaka 14. Sethemba, sizobe ahlale inkampani efanayo friendly ngendlela ongayo namuhla. "
Ngakho usungaqala lokuzalwa imikhonzo godson. Ngemuva kokufaka abamukeli ukuya ngqo kwenye ingxenye: "Sthandwa sami kancane, ngifuna ufisa nempilo enhle, injabulo enkulu kakhulu futhi engenamkhawulo. Abantu abaningi baphupha, ngoba inhloso kanye izinhlelo baphokophelele esenzweni. Awu bafunde kamuva bazisole amathuba elahlekile. Hlonipha abazali bakho. Umama nobaba for a lifetime kuyoba ngokuzimisela nokusekela kwakho ngobuqotho futhi ehlombe. Iya Ngokuzayo ne izwi leNkosi. Futhi ake uqhubeka kulo ingelosi wakho osezulwini. "
Ode kulusha
Nokho, uma ingane yakho esekhulile futhi urekhode ukubingelela kuye ukuthi awunayo isikhathi, ungafunda umbhalo ngaphezulu njengoba a ubhontshisi omuhle. Lokhu godson ukubingelela abazali abakuthola bamusho ngekhanda futhi uqobo. Futhi, i-toast odlule Ungakwazi ukwengeza amathiphu.
Nazo zimemezela umbhalo olandelayo: "Ndodana Dear! Namuhla une usuku ebaluleke kakhulu. Kule idethi cishe ukusula ifreyimu esiphakathi kobuntwana nobudala. Kungakhathaliseki endleleni, uhlale fair futhi uhlobo njalo. Khona-ke kuyodingeka lutho esingaba namahloni ngakho. Uma manje uthando futhi imizwa yakho mutual, noma imidlalo ebanga usizi, ukwazi kuzodlula ngokushesha. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, uzokhumbula kuphela ezinhle. ukukhetha ngokucophelela abangane, ngoba abantu abakuzungezile kungenzeka uhlale nawe ekuphileni. Futhi okubaluleke - musa ukusheshe zikhula! Ebuntwaneni - oluhle kakhulu kanye nolwazi lwenjabulo sekuyisikhathi ".
Isifiso efanayo, ungabhala incwadi esizayo kule godson kancane (iminyaka engu-2). Siyakuhalalisela namathiphu athinta inhliziyo.
tale eziyizixwayiso
In amazwi efudumele futhi ithenda wesikhuthazo lokuzalwa kudingeka izingane hhayi kuphela encane, kodwa futhi abadala. Ngakho-ke, emadodaneni namadodakazi okufanele nikusho ubhontshisi nice ngamaholide. Ubhapathizo - uyisiko elingasho lasendulo futhi enamandla. Kuyinto ngokusebenzisa le isiko abantu ingelosi futhi kuzobonakala emhlabeni lasezulwini. Ngakho-ke, ukuhalalisela godson wakhe kungaba nganekwane ezithakazelisayo.
Indaba uya ukuthi usuku olulodwa ngemva ukufa komuntu oyedwa wakhuluma neNkosi, futhi wammema ukuba sibheke uhambo wokuphila. Umgwaqo waba ebhishi sandy, lapho kusukela ekuqaleni livele amabili namabhuzu amathrekhi. Nokho, ngokuvamile kakhulu ezinye izinyathelo wanyamalala. Le ndoda bebambe the izimpawu, futhi ngaqaphela ukuthi wahlala wedwa uma uye waba inhlekelele ethile noma sivelelwa ukwehluleka.
Lokhu kubingelelana lokuzalwa godson efana, hhayi kuphela kuye, kodwa futhi izimenywa.
Ingqikithi yalo isiko
Legend iye yaqhubeka. Le ndoda bengaqondi ukuthi kungani uJehova eye bamshiya sezikhathi ezinzima kakhulu ekuphileni kwakhe. Nale mbuzo waphendukela kuNkulunkulu. Ngalesi esasizizwa ngayo, Nkulunkulu lula kuphela wamomotheka wabe esethi: ". Ingane yami, uma wena usizi ababuthakathaka noma izinkathazo, futhi abakwazanga ukuya ngokwami, ngangiphatha ngezandla zazo nje awazi waqina"
Le ndaba ezinhle ezifundisayo futhi kungenziwa agibele amahhashi ngala mazwi alandelayo: "Umuntu kuyinto angibi nesizungu. It nganoma yisiphi isikhathi uJehova esihambisana futhi ivikela ingelosi. Ngakho-ke, indodana ethandekayo, uthembele njalo ngoba uNkulunkulu ohlakaniphile futhi unesihe. Angakubusisa. "
ukubingelela okunjalo godson kusukela ibhapathizwa yakhe noma ummeli wesifazane ukuba esithinta inhliziyo ngokukhethekile, ikakhulu uma ucabangela ketshezi budlelwane emkhatsini abamukeli kanye nezingane zabo.
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