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Ubugovu - abantu bakudala nge ubuntu ezimfushane noma sekwenzekani?

Ngokuvamile empilweni sibhekene igama elithi "sobugovu;" futhi ngezinye izikhathi umuntu abizwa kanjalo. Nakuba ukuthi afihle ngokwabo, sivame ukudla e isichazamazwi yabo le nkulumo kanje: "Uneminyaka sobugovu." Njengomthetho, abantu abaningi kabi lapho kuthiwa ngale ndlela, futhi abanye nje bamshaya indiva. Yini enquma indlela abantu abasabela ngayo leli gama? Asizwise lokhu.

Ingabe kuhle kube nobugovu?

Ubugovu - they are ntu bani bazicabangela bona kuphela, abazi obakhathalelayo yabanye abantu. Lona incazelo lo mqondo elinikwe kunoma yisiphi isichazamazwi. Ngendlela kuyiqiniso. Kodwa kukhona omunye ukucaciseleka kubaluleke kakhulu. Ubugovu - kuba uyazethemba nesibindi kakhulu abantu. Ngokwesibonelo, wathi: "Ngikuphi - kukhona injabulo." Futhi kungani umuntu ucabanga ukuthi? Ngenxa yokuthi abantu abafani, omunye esweni ikutshela akathandi, noma okubi kakhulu, ukuthi Kuyacasula. Futhi manje sekuwumkhuba ukusho, "Uthole kimi besish!". Yiqiniso, akubona bonke abantu abanjalo, abantu abaningi bamane nje bathule futhi ngeke buthule zonda. Yiqiniso, zobugovu - they are ntu bani noma ubani ngeke usinde nokuthi uthando bona kuphela. Yiqiniso, nabantu abanjalo basuke bengafuni ngempela ukukhuluma, ngoba zivame ukukhuluma bona kuphela, nabanye nje abanandaba. Manje ososayensi baye bafakazela ukuthi zobugovu - bangabantu abafuna ukwenza lutho futhi uthole imali eningi. Kodwa izimangaliso ezinjalo azisenzeki ngisho inganekwane. Lokho imali, badinga ukuze uthole yomshikashika wabo siqu. Futhi ukuphila ngeke ngenye ungakujabulisi. Zicabange, uma umuntu ngamunye uzoba imali eningi, umhlaba wonke ibheke phansi. Aint it?

Guiltily ukuthi umphakathi?

Abantu abaningi kuyafaneleka ukuba ngithi izwe ungenzé zobugovu. Kodwa lokho unesandla emhlabeni? Wenzani lokhu, kube nobugovu? Kunalokho okuphathe kabi? Futhi ngokuvamile, kungakhathaliseki emhlabeni angenza into embi? Kunalokho ukusho ukuthi abantu baye benza kimi zobugovu. Uma ubheka emphakathini wanamuhla, kuba, eqinisweni, nxazonke zobugovu. Ngokwesibonelo, uma othile ewela phakathi emgwaqweni, indlela angaya emhlabeni? They tshela ukuthi kungcono nje odakiwe. Futhi eqinisweni, kungase kube nje umuntu wagula ... Kodwa zonke emhlabeni pass, futhi zero ukunakwa, ngisho ikhanda ayibuyi esiqondisweni sakhe. Yingakho ungakwazi kalula bathi sinawo umphakathi egoists. Futhi uma ngokungazelelwe kwenzeka okuthile othile kithi? Njalo thina singabafakazi bakhe eqinisweni akekho kungasiza ...

Kungakhathaliseki kuyinto evamile ukuba kobugovu?

Namuhla sekuwumkhuba ekubeni nobugovu. "Yiqiniso, lonke labo cishe, futhi nami ngifuna ukuba yilo okufanayo," - ngakho ecabanga iningi intsha. I-Internet yaqala ukubonakala eziningi amaqembu ehlukene kulaba bantu. Baze usethe amabhodi zabo, lapho ungabona izithombe Egoist. Ochwepheshe abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi lokhu akunangqondo, lokhu kuyadingeka ukuze vimbela. Akunakwenzeka ukugibela, kungenjalo angahlubula ibe yinkinga yembulunga yonke futhi balimaze esikhulu kuluntu. Kuze kube manje, ubugovu isivele kunomthelela omubi phezu kwabantu, kodwa, ngeshwa, akekho ibona kudingeka ukuba banake kuso. Kodwa lapho isimo uzothola zimbi kakhulu, kungase kube sekwephuze kakhulu. Lena ngokuyinhloko ezidingekayo ukuze sibonise nohulumeni wethu, yebo, kuze kube sonke isibalo sabantu. Phela, thina abantu okufanele babekwe icala okwenzekayo, futhi thina kuphela ungalungisa iphutha lakhe. Khumbula ukuthi ngaphambi kokwenza noma isiphi isinqumo, kudingeka ucabange nge ikhanda lakho.

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