Umbuzo wenyanga: bangaki iminyaka ababizela ebuthweni?

Kunoma yimuphi umuntu osemusha, umbuzo wokudlulela umsebenzi wezempi ophuthumayo uyaphuthuma kakhulu futhi ujabulise. Imibono ngale ndaba ihluke kakhulu komunye nomunye. Abanye bakholelwa ukuthi insizakalo yenza umuntu avele emntwaneni, kanti abanye banikeza izingxabano zabo ukuthi abantu basebuthweni bachitha isikhathi ngeze, bahlaziywe futhi baba "ngabantu abanobudlova, abangenacala". Kodwa-ke, yilowo nalowo wonke umuntu uyayikhathazeka ngombuzo wokuthi zingaki iminyaka ezibizwa ngokuthi ibutho.

Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi lesi sihloko sinesithakazelo kubesifazane. Abomama bakhathazeka ngezingane zabo, ngisho nangaphezu kwabo ngokwabo. "Izinkuni emlilweni" zengezwa emlandweni wezezimali kanye nezinhlelo zethelevishini, ezikwazisa abantu mayelana nezingozi, izakhi "zokubamba" nokunye okungahambi kahle emabuthweni ahlomile. Ngenxa yalokhu, imigqa yocingo yama-ejensi wezomthetho isuke ishukunyiswa ngemibuzo ngokuthi bangakabiza isikhathi eside ebuthweni. ERussia, isikhalazo senziwa kuze kube yilapho sineminyaka engu-27 - lokhu kungukuphendula kwababonisi kanye nochwepheshe kule ndaba.

Ukubhalisa

Kunezizathu eziningana zokuthi kungani umuntu enelungelo elingokomthetho lokumisa inkonzo yezempi. Isizathu sokuqala semfundo ephakeme. Kulesi simo, lo mbhalo awuhambisani nenkonzo yempi ngesikhathi sokuqeqesha. Kodwa iminyaka emingaki? Ukudlulisela ebuthweni kwenziwa yonke indawo, futhi ngenxa yalokho, izinkampani zakhiwe kubantu abahluke ngokuphelele (kumuntu ongu-18, nomunye umuntu - iminyaka engu-27). Ahluke hhayi kuphela endaweni yabo yokuhlala, kodwa nasezibukweni zabo zomhlaba, izinkolelo zezombangazwe nezenkolo.

Umbuzo wokuthi kungcono kangakanani ukungena empini kungumphikisana. Uma ukhetha le ndlela ngemuva kokuphothula esikoleni, uzothola ithuba lokuthola ithonya elibi. Futhi uma kwenzeka ukuthi lowo muntu engakabonanga kuze kube sekupheleni, kungenziwa izinguquko ezimbi nakakhulu.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma uya empini ngemuva kokuphothula imfundo ephakeme, khona-ke uhlelo luzozihlambalaza ngokuhlukumeza, ukungaboni kahle nokungafaneleki (kubonakala noma kungokoqobo). Kuyoba nzima kakhulu ukulalela ama-sergeants asebancane, ikakhulukazi uma imiyalo yabo ibonakala iyisiwula. Ngakho-ke, abaningi bazama ukutadisha ngokusemthethweni kakhulu, eminyakeni emingaki ebizwa ngokuthi ibutho.

Amasosha nomndeni

Kulula ukuqagela ukuthi kubantu bomndeni, umbuzo wokuthi bangaki iminyaka ababizela ebuthweni kunzima kakhulu. Ekuzalweni kwengane yokuqala, isikhathi somusa seminyaka emithathu sinikezwa, kodwa emva kwalesi sikhathi lo muntu uphinde abe nesibopho somsebenzi wezempi. Kunzima kakhulu ukungena empini uma unomntwana nomfazi odinga usizo lwakho, usizo nokuthanda!

Ngomntwana (ikakhulukazi eminyakeni yokuqala yokuphila) ukuba khona kukababa kubaluleke kakhulu. Ngesikhathi sokuya empini, empeleni, indoda izokhululwa emndenini wayo, kodwa lokhu ngeke kwenzeke kaningi ngesonto (ngokuvamile ngesontosonto). Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukuthi wonke umndeni uphendule umbuzo weminyaka emingaki ebanjwe ebuthweni, futhi nokuthi yimaphi amathuba okungahambi kuwo.