Yini kuyize, futhi yindlela eyingozi kangangani ukuthoma ukukhamba abantu

Wake wezwa amazwi athi, "Musa jama?" Kukuziphi izimo lapho ingabe siyasebenza? Wake wacabanga ukuthi yini kuyize, futhi yini luba nomthelela umuntu? Ake sithole izimpendulo zale mibuzo.

Ngakho, yini kuyize. Ngo isiGreki kusho isifiso, yisifiso sokufuna ezinhle emehlweni abanye abantu. Ngokuvamile wezwakalisa njengoba isidingo ukuzwa ukuthopha ethula inkulumo yakhe bagomela ngokwaso. Igama elithi "ize" elisuka ezimbili: "ize" - "isipho" futhi "inkazimulo". Ngamanye amazwi - elingenalutho, inkazimulo eziyize ezingenakusiza nezingenakophula, ivela kwabanye abantu.

Umuntu itheleleke nge okuyize, ngokuvamile hhayi fana aware of it. Uthi elinde ukunconywa nabantu ababemzungezile kuzo zonke izinyathelo ukuthi igcwele ukuvela mania, ukugula, imizwa ukwehluleka. Imiphumela iba yinhlanganisela yokukhandleka akunasisekelo ukucasuka, intukuthelo, bese - izingxabano nokungezwani.

Ukuphendula lo mbuzo: "? Yini kuyize" - ungakwazi ukwengeza ukuthi ukwesaba ukuthi you CABANGA. Ukwenqena ukungamukeleki odlulela ukulungela yomuntu ukuthola ukwamukelwa nganoma iyiphi indlela. Lokhu kungaholela "chelovekougodnichestvu". Lapho le ize indoda ivele ifune inhlonipho ephelele nokuzithoba.

Vanity singenzeka ezimweni lapho umuntu beyofuna ngokwabo, amakhono abo, efuna injongo yokuphila, futhi bengamtholi, ukuthola cranky, njalo ekhononda nhlobo, bonke ubuhlungu. Okulandelayo kumuntu onjalo kunzima kakhulu ukuba babambisane iyaqhubeka, ukuze abantu bazame ukuyigwema. Ngezinye izikhathi kuyenzeka ukuthi umuntu ngeze uthola ukwaneliseka yokuthi wazondwa, ngokuvamile bayesaba noma bamhleke usulu. Into esemqoka ukuthi iphawule.

Uzama ukuba azungeze yena nabantu nobuthakathaka efanelekayo. Ngokwesibonelo, uzicabangela yena ukuba the best ukucula, kuyilapho emhlabeni kuyoba abalandeli abengeziwe zibabaza ithalente zakhe, ezihlala ngokwabo ukucula bengayi. into efana "isifo inkanyezi" kuyinto yinye igama elithi "ize".

Efingqa le ndaba emfushane kuyize, kungenzeka ukwaba ezinye zezici zalo:

1. yanda, kuqiniswa ukunakekela udumo. Isifiso njalo futhi yonke indawo ngowokuqala, engcono, kubalulekile.
2. Izenzo umuntu ihlola ngokombono abanye abantu obakhathalelayo umbono wabantu ngokuphila kwabo.
3. Hard ukubekezelela ukugxekwa, akakubekezeleli ukugxekwa.
4. Isifiso ukugqama esixukwini izingubo, ukubukeka, iziphiwo, migilingwane.
5. Isifiso ukuthola imiklomelo, izitifiketi, amabheji.

Wonke umuntu amagciwane eyize. Kubalulekile isikhathi ukuvimbela ukuhluma yabo hhayi ogibeni yalo mkhuba.

Ukuhamba indlela empilweni, uzoba qiniseka ukuba akwazi ukunqoba izingqinamba nezikhathi ukuhlolwa ngesikhathi kuyize. Okusemqoka ukuthi wena ukusekela isiphetho isivivinyo. Ingabe uya ku- "ukusebenza izethameli" ukuba angaweli ubuso ebhuqwini, noma ngokwanele ukusekela ukugxekwa noma isihlamba, ngaphandle kokulindela udumo.

Ngezinye izikhathi kuyize womuntu ongabhubhisa ngisho ubudlelwane obuqinile phakathi izihlobo noma abangane. isifiso nokuhahela udumo nenkazimulo kuholela umbango normal, usongo futhi inzondo, umona nenzondo. Ukuwela zonke izici ngendlela enengqondo, kuyize bangaba okuphambene okubi, ubuthi nxazonke.