"Abagcini be-Lodge": ngubani umthenwa?

Namuhla, isikhungo sezenhlalo somthenwa kubhekwa njengobunhlobo bobugqila nobubi. Nokho, ngesiteji esithile ekuthuthukiseni umlando walawa mazwe noma amanye amazwe, lokhu kwakuyingxenye yesiko lesizwe. Namuhla sizokwazi ukuthi umthenwa usho ukuthini, futhi yimiphi imisebenzi akwenzayo esigodini se-sultan .

Umlando omncane ...

Isikhungo senhlalo sabathenwa sakhiwa ezikhathini zasendulo! Babengama-Asiriya, amaPheresiya, amaByzantium. Yabe isakazeka eChina. Yilapho lapho laba bantu bephathwa khona hhayi "njengezintambo zendawo", kodwa wabanika amandla amakhulu kakhulu. Kusukela ngaleso sikhathi, abathenwa baye bathatha isikhundla esiphezulu enkonzweni ... Ake sithole ukuthi kwenzeka kanjani!

"Abalindi bamagumbi"

Ngokushesha nje lapho umphakathi ohlala emphakathini njenge-harem usukuma, ngokushesha kwadingeka izinceku ezikwazi ukuhlinzeka ngomyalelo othile kuwo. Igama elithi "umthenwa", elihunyushwe kusuka esiGriki, lisho "umgcini wombhede", "umgcini wombhede". Kuvela ukuthi umthenwa "ungumlindi" emakamelweni angasese abantu abahloniphekile, abavela esigabeni sezinceku. Yini ehlukanisa laba bantu kumadoda ajwayelekile? Kungani umphakathi wanamuhla ukhathaza lesi sigaba sabasebenzi ngokungabaza?

Iqiniso liwukuthi bonke abathenwa babengaphansi kokugunyazwa okugunyaziwe! Ngamanye amazwi, laba bantu bahlinzwa ukuze basuse izigcawu zocansi. Lokhu kwenzeka ebuntwaneni - ngaphambi kokuqala kwezinguquko ezinkulu ze-hormonal emzimbeni. Kungani bezungezwe? Kulula! Ezikhathini zasendulo, abantu babekholelwa ngokuqinile ukuthi umthenwa osezindlini zeSultan anganikeza umyalelo ongcono uma nje eba "umuntu ohlala e-asexual" (uzolahlekelwa izici zakhe zesilisa), kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo uzoqhubeka efana nendoda. Lokho kwakungamasiko!

Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuxoshwa kwakungumhlobo wesiqinisekiso sokulahlwa kwamakhosi asebukhosini engozini yokuba nezingane ezizalwa ngaphandle komshado. Njengoba umthenwa, njengomthetho, ummeleli wekilasi elingaphansi, ama-sultan namakhosi ahluke ngokumelene nokuzalwa kwezingane kuye!

Zaba kanjani?

Kwakungenzeka ukuba umthenwa ngezindlela ezimbili: ngokuzikhethela noma ngokucindezela. Isibonelo, obaba abaningi bemindeni ethile ababehluphekile, banikela amadodana abo kule nkonzo, uma ngingasho njalo. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, obaba babe nemizwa emihle ngenzalo yabo.

Umsebenzi

Kufanele kuqaphele ukuthi "umthenwa" ngumsebenzi okhokhelwa kakhulu. Umuntu othathe isinyathelo sokuqala endleleni, ngokushesha wathola umvuzo omuhle. Esikhathini esizayo, uma ehlala enokholo, waba nezikhundla eziphakeme kakhulu, njengesikhulu, isikhulu sezempi, umeluleki wezezimali, umhloli wentela. Ngemva kwalokho, amadodana aphoqelekile ukusiza umndeni wabo ompofu.

Ukungaqondi kahle mayelana namathenwa

Emphakathini, umbono uvame kakhulu ukuthi umthenwa ngumuntu olahlekelwe ipeni lakhe! Abangane, lokhu akukona iqiniso! Babenakho konke ngokuhlelekile ngehlelo lohlobo lwe-genitourinary: abazange bahlangabezane nezinkinga zokuvuthwa, babe nokulungiswa okuqinisekisiwe, bebengaba nobulili njengabo bonke abantu abavamile. Ukunciphisa kwabo kuphela ukuthi akunakwenzeka ukukhulelwa ingane.