Kanjani ukuheha inhlanhla?

Fortune uyamamatheka akubona bonke abantu. Ngezinye izikhathi kubonakala sengathi abantu njalo futhi ngendlela engafanele "izinhlanzi" ke. Qaphela Nokho, ukuthi impumelelo kuphela kuziwa lokuhle, labo abakholwa impumelelo yayo, akesabi ukuba izifake engozini hhayi uyephuza ekuthatheni iinqunto. Pessimists nalabo ungathandi ukwenza, futhi kuphela elinde inhlanhla Bypasses. Iqiniso ukuthi abantu abanethemba lokuhle ukholwa impumelelo yayo, futhi ezinye ubunzima nezinkathazo ahlolwa njengencenye ekuphileni, nolwazi analo kanye pessimists ukuwukhipha kusukela ekuqaleni, nquma bonke baqala empandeni, besaba ingozi, futhi akazange behluleka ukwenza okuhle namandla.

Ukuze ukuxazulula le nkinga ukuthi, kanjani ukuheha inhlanhla ku esigabeni sokuqala kufanele uzilungiselele ke. Ngaphandle wayesenalo ithemba nokholo, yena akunakwenzeka ukuba singqongqoza kini.

Abanye abantu lucky empilweni, kodwa kukhona umuntu ongene cha ababulawa iyiphi isifiso eyodwa. Othile uyaphumelela konke, kuba okwanelisayo nokujabulisayo, kuyilapho abanye ngokulambisa kuphazamisekile phakathi amaholo. Kwezinye abesifazane ekuphileni konke yami siqu nje emihle, kodwa abanye kungase kungabi empilweni yami ukushada.

Kungani-ke ngakho kwenzeka ukuthi impumelelo othile uhamba nje izithende zakhe, kanye nabanye abafana indiva? Sizozama ukuthi baqonde ukuthi ukuletha inhlanhla uhlangothi lwazo futhi ufuna ukuthola injabulo.

Iphuzu lapha yilona lena akuyona lo mqondo "inhlanhla", kodwa kulalokhu Siyokwazi yini ukukhokhela ukuvumela ku yakho impilo enhle inhlanhla, imali nenjabulo, noma cha. Wena, yebo, uyazibuza ukuthi ungasiza akuvumele inhlanhla yakho? Yiqiniso, unga. Phela, iningi Yilokho kanye okwenzeka. Kaningi zicabanga ukuthi inhlanhla Usixoshile, izifiso awagcwaliseki, ngakho uhlale esengozini impumelelo. Kuyinto ukuthembela kwethu kwangaphakathi edonsela noma okucasulayo inhlanhla, amathuba, impumelelo, ingcebo.

Umuntu ngamunye uhlu isifiso. Uma namanje wenzé akunjalo ke une ithuba elikhulu ukwenza kanjalo. Desire, lishicilelwe ephepheni, kwenziwe okuningi ngokunembe kakhudlwana. Omunye ku amaphupho lokuqala impilo, umuntu - ukuhlangabezana uthando, futhi abanye - yengcebo. Kwenzeka ukuthi isifiso ayikwazi babulawa. Futhi kulokhu, umuntu angaba adikile ayeke ukulwela injabulo yabo. Isixazululo main ukuba inkinga, kanjani ukuheha inhlanhla empilweni yakho ukuthatha umqondo walokho wena ufanelwe. Ukuze sithande futhi uzihlonipha, ungadikibali futhi singavumi bangayeki, ngoba wena okufanele simthande, injabulo, ingcebo wena azizimbi kunabanye. Kuyinto ngalo mqondo lapho kudingeka siqiniseke ukukusiza ukuheha inhlanhla.

Cabangela nasi isibonelo. Ingabe iye waphupha ukuze uthole uthando futhi ukubazi Ungumuntu omuhle. Wena ukurekhoda isifiso sakho, uzibone eduze owayekhethwe. Futhi omunye izenzakalo ezinkampani noma amaholide uyamenywa ukudansa umuntu ongamazi enhle. He is nsé e amaphupho akho. Isihambi ukumema ukudansa, uyakukhathalela ke ngosuku lokuqala, lesibili, ubuhlobo bakho eba. Futhi ungakwazi ukuthola okwanele yokuthi indoda langa enjalo yabhekisela wena. Futhi lokhu yilapho izinkinga ziqala. Uma nje ukukhombisa okungenani ezinye ukungabaza ukuthi asikufanelekeli ukwamukelwa umuntu onjalo ingafanele yothando lwakhe, uqala ngaphakathi dudula, enqabe injabulo yakho. Rekhoda imizwa yakho, ukungabaza kwakho, uqale ukusebenza nabo, zama ukuqeda kubo. Lokhu kuyokusiza ukuba uphendule umbuzo kanjani ukuletha inhlanhla othandweni, hhayi ukulahlekelwa injabulo.

Ngale ndlela, ungenza ukuthi ezimweni eziningi. Ngokwesibonelo, ucelwa ukuba ukutshala ukuthengwa komhlaba, njengoba co-zimali. Wena mathintanyawo isikhathi eside elinde okuthile, kodwa abantu abanolwazi baba bathembisa lezi zingane inzuzo enhle. Ngakho zingalitholi iphuzu. Ekuqaleni, wacabanga ukuthi lutho olubi kuzokwenzeka, kodwa ingcebo zimali ukuceba eminyakeni embalwa ngokuthengisa leli zwe, futhi bashiya yonke into. Usanda uyesaba inhlanhla yakho, ungazange ufune ukuthatha ingozi. Yiqiniso, ingozi kumele silungisiswe, ngakho enjalo kuwufanele ukuze uthole ukwesekwa kanye ukulalela iseluleko kongoti obhekana nazo.

Kuphakathi bewuzokuphiwa esiphakeme ukukhokha, kodwa wena besaba ukuthi awukwazi ukuphatha. Futhi ngenkathi ungabaze indawo yakho kwaba abantu okuyingozi abaningi asesabi nobunzima.

Izibonelo kanjani ukuletha inhlanhla noma ukuze amsunduze, okuningi. Sibone ukuthi kungani. Kuyinto izinto esizesabayo, ukungafuni ukushintsha into, yokuzingabaza. It uhlala kuphela kangakanani ukuziqinisekisa ukuthi kubafanele kangcono umsebenzi, injabulo, ingcebo. Uma ngempela ufuna ukuba uphumelele, uyokwazi ukufeza ngokusebenzisa umsebenzi onzima futhi ukusebenza ngokwakho. Inhlanhla - ngokuyinhloko umsebenzi.

Sithemba ukuthi lesi sihloko kuye kwasiza ukuba uphendule umbuzo othi kanjani ukuheha inhlanhla. Futhi ake impumelelo abe umngane wakho njalo!