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Yisifiso esilawulayo ukulawula konke: indlela ayibulale?

Wena ungomunye walabo abantu abanale iminwe yabo uku-pulse izenzakalo. Wena zijwayele ukuthatha zibhekane nemiphumela yezenzo zazo bese kunoma isiphi isimo, abafuna gcina ukulawula. Kodwa lokho kukunika salo mkhuba? Ingabe kubalulekile ukuba uzitholele abanye indima yabo eyinhloko?

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Uma sihlanganise indima ongusomabhizinisi ochumayo nonina, umcabango ekhanda lakho uvule endaweni maelstrom zeziyaluyalu. Kufanele uhlole ukuthi umhlengikazi wathatha indodana yakhe encane kusukela enkulisa, ukubiza umyeni wakhe futhi umkhumbuze ukuthi wathenga ukudla kwakusihlwa, futhi indodakazi endala, wakhumbula ukuthi yena wenze sibonane nodokotela wamazinyo. Ngaphezu konke emahlombe akho baphathiswe inhlangano lokuzalwa Umshana wakhe. Nokho, ubani ngaphandle kwakho ngakho deftly ubambe imicu control? Ngisho ehhovisi awukwazi ukuzola, kuze kube phakade enxusa nozakwethu umbiko. Zonke amaphepha kumele kube etafuleni ngoba usuku olulandelayo, kanye phrojekthi esandleni ngoLwesihlanu olulandelayo.

Kungani abantu ufuna ukulawula konke?

Ungakwazi bathethelele propensity yabo Ukuziphatha ukuphelela. Ngeshwa, abanye abazi ukuthi kungakanani obathandayo, abangane kanye nozakwabo bakhathele ukubelesela engapheli.

Nokho, isifiso sakho ukuphelela (okuyinto engaqondakali ngakho kwabanye) kusekelwe ukwesaba ahlupheke ukuhluleka yomphakathi. Ngoba wena slushkom umbono womphakathi obalulekile. Yingakho obungasoze wathanda ukuba kukulahlekele, futhi abantu baxhumane nawe, ohlangothini lephutha. Ukwesaba nokukhathazeka - lawa main ukushayela amabutho okuyize yakho. Mhlawumbe, njengoba ingane uke wabhekana nokucindezeleka okukhulu, kubangelwa umlilo ezimbi noma ezinye esenzeka wubudedengu babantu. Futhi manje, usuthathe isinqumo ukuthi control kuyoba isikhumba sakho sesibili. Kungenzeka yini ukuba umzali azikhukhumeze kakhulu ubani usinga imodeli ezabo izindinganiso zokuziphatha.

Lokhu kukhathazeka kuyinto kuyakhathaza

Kubonakala sengathi isifiso sakho sokugembula ukulawula abasebenzi konke namanje ngandlela-thile akhuthazela, kodwa imizi basuke ngokoqobo kokuziklinya, engakwazi isinyathelo ngaphandle kolwazi lakho. Ingabe mania izintambo ngokuphelele ngisho ungeyena ukhathele? Uma kunjalo, sizobe ikutshele ukuthi balahle yisifiso esilawulayo ukugcina ukulawula ezandleni intambo.

Indlela ukuqeda mania?

Ngesikhathi inhliziyo yokwelapha self-kokukhulula Kumelwe ngilale. Chitha isikhathi esithile futhi bahlanganyele introspection.

Bheka kakhulu, okuyinto sizogxila umuzwa siqu enhlalakahleni. Awukwazi bazame ukushintsha ubuntu babo ngaphandle umbono ocacile mayelana imikhawulo ukuzethemba. Kusukela manje, wena nje uzoba induna nomahluleli yakho. Ungavumeli abanye engozini ukuzethemba kwakho.

Bheka izibonelo abaholi oluvelele

Bewazi yini ukuthi main izinga oluhlukanisa umphathi yimpumelelo sasikhuthaza, kodwa hhayi ukulawula? Funda amathiphu ewusizo e izincwadi nomagazini, uholwe ukuziphatha abaholi movie adumile. Kulezi zici nakwezinye imithombo, uyothola eziningi imininingwane ewusizo.

Ungesabi ukuba ulinge

Sekuyisikhathi ngokuphelele lokushintsha ukucabanga kwabo. Ngoba lokhu kuyiso kangcono ukwenza izinto zokuchitha isizungu ezintsha kanye nemisebenzi. Thatha isiginci izifundo - umculo ukwenza nemakhono ubuchopho abaqeqeshwe kahle. Joyina sigaba ekhuphuka - ukugibela ohlangothini eweni eceleni nalabo abambisene nabo nginifundise ukuthemba abanye abantu. Zibandakanye yoga noma ukuzindla - lezi zifundo emangalisayo ukuvumelanisa umphefumulo, ingqondo nomzimba. ukwenza izinto zokuchitha isizungu okusha kuzoqinisekisa ukugeleza imibono emisha, okusho yakho zokucabanga sizoshintsha.

Ngokuvamile nakabuka ngokwakho

Lapho indoda Esandleni sakhe imicu control, ngokuvamile akukhona uyazi izizathu walivuma iphutha lakhe. Uhlala njalo aphume ngumkhuba kungabe kusaba ngempela ubuka izinqubo esikiselwa nokuzenyeza. Uma sekwephuzile, futhi uyazi ukuthi ngabe uhlangabezana nesifiso esinamandla ukuqala kabusha ukulawula isimo, yima bese bheka ngaphakathi kuwe. Manje bheka izisusa nezifiso zakho. Mhlawumbe wena ubusa ngaphezu ukwesaba ukwehluleka, ukwenqena ukuzwa ukulahlwa zabanye noma ukungalethembi abanye. Phakathi nalezi zinto kanye nezinye izici kungaba ekwenza asengozini kakhulu akhonjwe. Kuyinto ukwesaba ukwehluleka. Kodwa kulapho uyobheka ngokujulile engqondweni yakho siqu, siyoba sikhulu uxhumano yakho emhlabeni ngaphandle.

Ukufunda ukubethemba abanye

Njengoba sishilo phambilini, ungajwayele ukwethemba abanye. Ukubeka phezu izinso kwamandla, unikeza abanye baqonde ukuthi akekho ngaphandle ongeke ubhekane ngokuphumelelayo nalesi simo kangcono. Lokhu ngemibono kuhlobene nokuba nomuzwa ingozi. Ukunqanda ke, kudingeka ufunde indlela ngokwanele ukuhlola owakho.

Ungakhohlwa mayelana ukuphumula

Ngezinye izikhathi kuyasiza ukuchitha obukelayo. Nikeza ithuba izindaba eziphuthumayo ukuthatha inkambo yabo. Ungakhathazeki, ngeke sikwenze njalo, vele uthathe sokuvala iDemo. Nika lo mkhuba ukuba siqonde nhlobo icala. Ngisho multi-ahlomile Nkulunkulu Shiva ngeke sibhekane ngokuphumelelayo umthwalo ukuphelela kubo. Ake zinto abangaphelele. Ekugcineni, kwamaphutha has charm yayo siqu.

Cabanga ngemizwa yabanye abantu

Phakathi naso sonke leso sikhathi ingqondo yakho akakaze kwadingeka umcabango mayelana nendlela abantu bazizwe ngubani kufanele njalo ukulalela iseluleko kothile?

Manje sekuyisikhathi sokuba lizibuka. Desire izintambo ngokuphelele mnyama izimpilo zabantu kusukela imvelo yakho. Akekho abadala ukungamukeli uthola isiphetho esinjena, lapho omunye umuntu uhlale scolds kuye ingafana kanjani nengane icala. Zicabange wena njalo anikeze imiyalo. Ingabe uzizwa ujabule noma awuyithandi isikhundla sakhe? Shintsha imihlahlandlela ngase ukunakekelwa nokungakhubekisi abanye ngokona zokuziphatha.

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