Yokuzala abesifazane. Yini okufanele ngiyazi?

yobudala ezalayo libizwa kwenkathi ethile ekuphileni sowesifazane lapho useyakwazi ukuba akhulelwe futhi abelethe ingane. Lesikhatsi lesi cishe wonke umuntu okufanayo, kodwa kungase kube sithi ukuhluka ngenxa izici bokuphila. Lapho uqala futhi aphethe ngokucela ukuzalwa ubudala abesifazane?

ekuqaleni

Ikhono unezingane, owesifazane uthola ngisho esemncane, ngemuva kokufika ukuya esikhathini. Lokhu akufanele kumangaze, ngoba udla ukuthomba (ukuthomba). Licala mayelana 10-11 ubudala futhi esibonakala ngokuqina ukwanda nezindlala mammary, ukubukeka izinwele ngaphansi emakhwapheni, phezu pubic. Uma abazali izinguquko ezinjalo ngendodakazi yakhe, badinga qiniseka ukukhuluma nengane yakho futhi uchaze ukuthi kwenzekani. Proper imfundo sex kuzovumela ukuze sigweme izinkinga eziningi esikhathini esizayo.

Singasho ukuthi kusukela kulo mzuzwana efika igcwaliswe kusukela kwabasanda kweva eshumini yokuzala abesifazane. Kodwa ngiphuthume lapho kuzalwa izingane akuyona zinkulu. Emzimbeni, intombazane esemncane kanjalo ingaba abakhulelwe, ngisho ubelethe umntwana. Kodwa lena nomthelela omubi kakhulu empilweni yakhe. Umzimba akakabi isilungele uthuthumele enjalo, futhi ingozi yokuthola igciwane eziyingozi (kwesisu, toxemia eqinile, nokubeletha inkimbinkimbi, ababelethwa kungakafiki isikhathi) likhulu kakhulu.

Abesifazane abaseseminyakeni yokuthola abantwana

Odokotela musa batusa ukuba azale amantombazane iminyaka 18-19 ubudala. Kodwa-ke kungcono ukulinda iminyaka embalwa. Ngalesi yobudala yomzimba wowesifazane kungcono kakhulu ukubekezelela ekhulelwa noma ebeletha. Yokuzala kwabesifazane ihlala iminyaka engaba ngu-25-30. Le nkathi ingancishiswa kakhulu ngenxa ezihlukahlukene nezifo ezingamahlala khona.

Kubalulekile kakhulu kusukela ebuntwaneni ukufundisa intombazane kudingeka bazinakekele, ukuvakashela njalo udokotela wezifo zabesifazane bese bagcine sinemikhuba emihle yenhlanzeko. Kuyadingeka ukufundisa ingane ukuqinisekisa ukuthi noma iyiphi, ngisho nesifo omnene kakhulu, kungase kuthinte umsebenzi zokuzala. Ngakho-ke, akufanele ukusebenzisa lesi sifo, kodwa ngaso sonke isikhathi isikhathi sibaphathe. Owesifazane omdala kufanele uvakashele udokotela okungenani kabili ngonyaka, ngisho noma kungekho isizathu sokukhathazeka. Ezinye izifo zenzeka ifomu ezifihliwe, ngakho akunakwenzeka ukuthi azozibona ngokwakho. Umnyaka elikhulu ebeletha kuhluka iminyaka engu-20 kuya 35, kuye ngokuthi isimo somzimba owesifazane.

Lapho konke sekuqediwe?

Okubizwa ngokuthi menopause kwenzeka emva kweminyaka 45. Yokuzala kwabesifazane ingahlala elilandelayo, futhi mhlawumbe lokhu kuzophela. Kwenzeka konke kancane kancane. Ukushintsha kwama-hormone, aphazamise inqubo nge-ovulation, esikhathini zamabhasi, iqanda uvuthwe eside. Yonke inqubo ithatha isikhathi esingaphezu konyaka. Lo wesifazane ngeke usathola abakhulelwe kanye nomntwana phakathi nalesi sikhathi. Nokho, kukhona awokuthi ukuzalwa komntwana ne ezihlukahlukene izifo ezibangelwa ufuzo. Ngakho-ke, odokotela batusa ukuba bahlehlise sokukhulelwa ngolunye usuku ezinjalo.

Yokuzala kwabesifazane kuncike izici zawo bokuphila. Kungenzeka ekuqaleni kakhulu futhi iphela kahle ukuguga. Kuyadingeka ukuba sicabangele ukuba imibhangqwana, kodwa ngoba ngemva kokuba afinyelele ebudaleni obuthile kuphela kufanele asiyeki ivikelwe.