Nokwaneliswa - yisifiso sokuba wedwa noma ubalekele ukubhekana namaqiniso?

Namuhla kuyinto evamile ukuba umoya onamandla yomuntu. Akukona ngisho imfashini, futhi abadinga usizo. yokuphila yesimanje isenza kwangqingetshe. mncintiswano Permanent emsebenzini nasekuphileni kwakho siqu, futhi sihlangabezane nezidingo zombuso okhulayo yokuntuleka inhlekelele isikhathi khulula - nje ungiphe ubuthakathaka, futhi umjikelezo we izenzakalo zokuphila sikuphonse ogwini, njengoba imithwalo engadingeki.

Kuleso simo nongenamusa, umuntu akumelwe nje agcine ngokusho njalo ukugcina izikhundla zawo, kodwa futhi ukuhlakulela. Izidingo ze-non-sokuhambisana umphakathi futhi amabutho abo ukuze kuhlangatshezwane nezidingo - yilokho isizathu esiyinhloko ukucindezeleka nokucindezeleka.

Yini okufanele ibe indoda ekahle kwekhulu lama-21? Intelligent, efundile uzilungise, ezigcina umthetho, efundile ukwaneliseka? Yebo, nokwaneliswa - iyona eyenza umuntu ovuthiwe ngokomoya kusukela umuntu eziyihlazo. Lokhu kuvuthwa kuyindaba nenhlonipho, umona, isifiso sokulingisa zebanga neminye imizwa ezinye zazo ziyangqubuzana. Kukholakala ukuthi umuntu oludonsa - uyinto elingalodwa, uvaliwe uqobo futhi isekela ngokwayo bebodwa, mahhala kusukela imibono yabanye, nezinye ubandlululo. Kodwa ingabe le inkululeko khona injabulo? Futhi oludonsa uma umuntu kungazange kufinyelele ukuphakama ethile, kodwa ujabulile isimo sabo samanje ezindabeni? Kukuziphi izici zokuphila ububonisa le mfanelo?

Kusukela umbono kwengqondo, nokwaneliswa - yikhono umuntu ukunqoba izinkinga zabo futhi ukuhlangabezana nezidingo zabo bebodwa. Izimfanelo eyinhloko ntu ovuthiwe oludonsa kuyinto ukungabikho kokwesaba futhi basamukele ngokugcwele umthwalo ngezenzo zakhe. Uma umuntu onjalo enza okuthile, akunjalo kwasekuqaleni bona nabathandekayo babo, imibono yabanye akuyona kudingekile ngemfanelo, udumo nenhlonipho - kuba kunalokho a kwalokho nice kuze kwaneliseke okuyinto sesivele eyatholakala kusukela umsebenzi ngempumelelo kwenziwa. Nokwaneliswa kungenziwa wabonakaliswa kuyo yonke imikhakha yokuphila:

1. kwezomnotho - ehloselwe ukuzimela izinqumo ezindabeni zansuku zonke.

2. Social - kusho ukuqashelwa zamakhono womuntu ezindabeni ngawo sikhulumela. Kubalulekile ukuthi lowo muntu kwamenelisa naye kanye nomsebenzi wakhe.

3. kwengqondo - kusho ukwamukelwa ngokwayo, ukuntula ukwesaba noma kabi ngaphambi kungenzeka ukuba yedwa. Man akesabi izinkinga zayo zangaphakathi, it has ukwenza okuthile ngawo ngedwa. Nokho, nokwaneliswa - kuyinto hhayi Ukuntuleka noma uthando othile. Kuyinto kuphela ukungabi khona nokulutheka.

Ngokuphathelene nalesi sigaba impikiswano yokwaneliseka njengomuntu wesifazane, khona-ke ungakwazi into eyodwa: ngokweqile ukuzethemba eziwubukhazikhazi futhi amandla kungasiza yokwakha ama-career, kodwa ubudlelwano nabobulili obuhlukile, zingabantu asihlobene. Ukwehluleka ukulandela lo mthetho elula ngokuvamile kuholela ezinkingeni ekuphileni kwakhe siqu.

Nokwaneliswa - akuyona imfanelo esingokwemvelo, it is labawatfolile esifundvweni nobe luhlelo lwekutfutfukiswa futhi lithathelwe nomphakathi. Kungenzeka ukuthuthukisa ngenjongo abasebenza nabo. Khumbula ukuthi kuphela - ungumdali wokuphila yakho, ukuthi ubani obangele konke okwenzekayo kuwo.