Ubuntwana. Ukwakhiwa kwabafundi besikole

Ubuntwana ... Ukubunjwa-ukucabanga ngalesi sihloko akukaze kugcwaliswe, ngenxa yalesi sihloko ungakwazi ukukhuluma kuze kube phakade.

"Lapho ingane ihamba khona, lapho imizi ..." - lo mbuzo ngokushesha noma kamuva uyajabulisa wonke umuntu. Kodwa into edabukisayo yukuthi ngezinye izikhathi umuntu nje akanalo isikhathi esanele sokungena ezinkumbulo futhi aphinde azizwe njengomntwana omncane, okwathi konke ukuphila kuye kwachazwa ngegama elilodwa - ebuntwaneni. Ukwakhiwa kuzosiza ekudaluleni ukubaluleka kwalesi sikhathi. Kodwa akukhona konke.

Ukwakhiwa "ebuntwaneni" kuyithuba lokuthola izimpendulo zemibuzo eminingi mayelana nesikhathi esidlule.

Kungani sidonseleka kangaka esikhathini esidlule?

Imicabango yomunye mayelana nokudabuka okudlule, umuntu unezinkumbulo ezinhle nenjabulo. Kodwa abantu abaningi ngandlela-thile bakhumbula izikhathi ezithakazelisayo zobuntwana babo. Kungani sidonseleka kangaka ngalezi zinkinga? Masibhale ngalesi sifushane esifushane.

Izingane yizwe elikhethekile, lapho konke kungaziwa, ngezinye izikhathi kungenakuqondakala, kodwa kuyathandeka kakhulu. Nsuku zonke kwaletha ulwazi olusha, imizwelo nokuzwa. Izwe ngamehlo omntwana omncane libukeka likhazimulayo, linamahloni, ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nemininingwane engadingekile njengethoyizi encane noma ibhubhe ekhunjulwa enkumbulweni kangangokuthi ihlala nomuntu wokuphila.

Futhi lokhu ukulangazelela okudlule kulula ukuchaza. Ukukhula, umuntu uyeka ukubona umhlaba ngokusebenzisa izibuko zamanzi. Ukuphila akulona okuqhakazile futhi okungavamile, ukuqhuma kokuphila kwansuku zonke kusihudula kakhudlwana kude nesikhathi esidlule esingakhathazeki. Yingakho kaningi kakhulu umuntu, egxila emcabangweni wobuntwana, ukumomotheka. Ngempela, izinkumbulo ezifudumayo, ezishisa futhi eziqhakazile zilokhu zivela kule nkathi.

Yiqiniso, ngamunye wezingane wayehlukile. Omunye umuntu uzama ukukhumbula isikhathi esedlule sokuphila ngezizathu ezihlukahlukene. Kodwa nakanjani wonke umuntu unememori elilodwa elikhanyayo kusukela ebuntwaneni, okwenza futhi uzizwe njengomntwana. Futhi yilokhu okuvumela umuntu ukuba aphazamiseke ukungabi namsebenzi kwansuku zonke, izinkinga nokuhluleka futhi aphumule emvuthwandaba.

Inani lokubuntwana

Enye yezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu zomuntu yisikhathi. Buza noma yimuphi umuntu osekhulile, futhi uzokutshela ukuthi impilo yakhe iqhume ngokushesha. Ubuntwana buyona esheshayo. Kungani ihamba ngokushesha kangaka?

Ngeshwa, ukuqonda komuntu kuhlelwe ukuze konke okuhle esikuthole kalula. Izinsuku ezijabulisayo azibala, zonke zihlangana endaweni eyodwa ebomvu futhi efudumele, kodwa izikhathi ezimbi umuntu okuhlangenwe nakho umuntu kunzima futhi zinde. Futhi ngoba bambalwa abantu bangasho ukuthi ubuntwana bakhe abujabuli. Yingakho iqhuma ngokushesha futhi ingabonakali. Futhi lokhu kubaluleka kwalesi sikhathi sokuphila. Ungowokusheshisa, kodwa ujabula kakhulu.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, ekubeni mncane, wonke umuntu ufuna ukukhula ngokushesha futhi athole ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukuba umuntu omdala. Izingane azikwazi ukubonga isikhathi sabo esijabulisayo, kodwa ngokuqinisekile bayofunda ukuba abantu abadala.

Yini eyenza ingane ukuba yingane?

Umuntu onomndeni nezingane kakade uqaphela ngokubaluleka ukubaluleka kwenkathi yobuntwana. Ngalesi sikhathi, umntwana akhiwe hhayi nje kuphela njengomuntu ophilayo, kodwa futhi njengomuntu.

Eminyakeni yokuqala yokuphila ingane isivele ibonakalisa ukuthi uyedwa. Ukuzijabulisa, ukuziphatha, imikhuba kanye nomlingisi kuvela emntwaneni kusukela eminyakeni yokuqala yokuphila.

Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ingane ikhula, futhi umbuthano wayo womphakathi ukhula. Ubuntwana buvumela ingane ukuba ikhule emjikelezweni ovikelwe - emndenini lapho eyazi khona zonke izici ezibalulekile zokuphila. Futhi-ke kukhona inkulisa, isikole ... Isikole sishiye impendulo ekhethekile empilweni yabantu bonke, yingane yethu esemncane. Umbhalo esiwubhala esikoleni mayelana namaholidi asetshenzisiwe ugcwala ngokugcwele injabulo. Uma usulondolozile ama-notebook amadala, ukuwafunda kabusha ngeke kube yinto engafaneleki.

Okubalulekile ukuthi kungumntwana ukuthi umzali ubeka ikusasa lomntanakhe. Sithuthukisa ingane, simfundise ukufunda, ukubhala, ukuheha ubuciko kanye nezinye izigaba zokuphila, ezakha ubuntu, futhi ngokufanele, ukucabanga kwakhe nekusasa lakhe.

Ubuntwana bokubili

Abantu abaningi abadala bazi ngokwabo ukuthi ingane yesibili ingubani. Kubantu abaningi, lo mqondo uhlotshaniswa nokuzalwa kwengane. Ekuboneni kokuqala, ungasho-kodwa kuphi lobubuntwana, lapho kuphela ukuhlupheka nobusuku bokulala buqala?

Lokhu kuyiqiniso. Kodwa-ke, abazali abaningi, ngokuthuthukiswa kwengane yabo, baphinde bagxilwe ebuntwaneni, futhi bahamba nomntanakho kuzo zonke izigaba zayo, njengokungathi sebeba ncane futhi.

Ukuphela kwengane nini?

Ingabe ikhona leyo mfanelo oyiqondayo lapho uwela ukuthi ingane ishiywa ngemuva? Umuntu ngamunye kulo mzuzu uhlukile. Futhi bambalwa abantu bazokwazi ukubiza noma yimuphi umcimbi noma umzuzu, okwakuwukuphela kokubuntwana. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi, njengoba sikhula, sisuke sisuke sisuka ekunganeni, bese kuthi isikhathi sokukhula sikhule kancane kancane, sithatha indawo yesikhathi esidlule esingenasidingo.

Kwabanye, inkathi yezingane ibuyele emuva ngemuva kwe-8, 10, ngezinye izikhathi iminyaka engu-15, kanti ubuntwana bodwa buhlala phakade kumuntu. Phela, kuxhomeke kakhulu ekubukeni empilweni. Umuntu othile ubhekana nokuhluleka okukhulu, futhi umuntu ubheka okwenzekayo, elandela isimiso "konke kuzodlula, kuzodlula."

Yazisa ubuntwana bakho. Umbhalo ochazwe ngenhla awunakwenzeka ukukusiza ukuthi unqume ukuthi ngabe ujabule noma cha. Uzoyiqonda lokhu kuphela yobudala, lapho impilo yakho ihamba kakhulu. Kodwa kuyohlale iyingxenye yokuphila kwakho. Ingxenye yayo enekhono lezinkumbulo ezizofudumala umphefumulo kuze kube phakade.

Sithemba le nkulumo ethi "Ubuntwana" yasiza ekuqapheliseni ukubaluleka kwalesi sikhathi futhi.