Uyini umgomo? umsebenzi engiwuthandayo

Kwabanye abantu, Julayi - ngenyanga elihlobene ne ngokunganaki, ehlobo amaholide futhi ngezinye izikhathi amaholide, ngenkathi abafundi izolo abasinda ayut hhayi kakhulu nice, kodwa mhlawumbe kakhulu nesikhathi ezibalulekile zokuphila kwakhe. Abathole iziqu komsebenzi - ukunquma ukuthi yini ubizo, futhi bakhethe lapho b udet zincike lonke lokuphila kwesikhathi esizayo. Lokhu kukhetha, Ngokuqinisekile eziyinkimbinkimbi, ngakho kudingeka siyinake eduze.

ubunzima lokuzibusa

Ukuze ukwazi ukubona kahle nje ukuthi ubizo, into yokuqala udinga uzokhukhula konke edidayo ngqo umbuzo ngokwayo asisebenzi. Kufanele sizame abstract ezivela kubangani, nengangibajwayele, izihlobo, nokufakwa zabo hhayi amathiphu kanye mibandela.
Udinga ukukhohlwa ngalokho imfashini, ethandwa, ehlonishwa, futhi ukucabanga akukona nje imali, kodwa ngawe. Yebo, kancane okunempilo, noma uma ufuna ubugovu engokwemvelo hhayi ubuhlungu, ngoba ngokuvamile kakhulu izingane sezibekwe ngaphansi kwengcindezi abadala (abazali, ogogo nomkhulu noma abangane bakho asebekhulile), bamelele izifiso zawo izifiso zabanye, wabhekisela esimweni ukuphila kwakhe elingesilo elakhe, futhi iphupho zabanye abantu ezinganeni. Kungenzeka yini ukuba uthole indlela ephumelela ngaphezu zichithe ukuphila komuntu phakade kuka ambangela ukuba enze lokho ayithandi? Asinakukwenza lokho.

Ishayela nento ozithandayo: iphi umugqa?

Ukuphendula umbuzo ngalokho ubizo, kubalulekile ukuba sivumele esikhundleni imiqondo. Ngokuvamile abantu uzwelane esithandayo ibhizinisi uya khona, nakuba kunomehluko obalulekile phakathi kwalezi izinhlobo zabantu ezimbili. Ngakho ukushaya - akusiwona nje "umsebenzi wami ozithandayo", kodwa into abstract nokuncane eziphathekayo. Kuyinto, kunalokho, uhlobo motion Vector siqu nendawo isithakazelo, noma uma ufuna ireferensi iphuzu ofuna umzamo ukuphila konke. Ngakho, injongo, kunalokho, isigaba zefilosofi ukuthi uchaza umbono wezwe futhi indima yomuntu kwi-ke, lapho "umsebenzi engilithandayo" - wawubonakalisa obuphathekayo ezizokwehlela abantu, lawa amabhlogo wokwakha isamba kanye indlela kulesi siqondiso.

By endleleni, uma kukhona, isibonelo, kunomehluko phakathi kokuba uthisha futhi azalwe ukuba umfundisi? Ubuza umbuzo ongafuni mpendulo kuphela.

Calling - okwesikhathi bambalwa abakhethiwe?

Injongo, noma kunjalo, sizalwa nawo wonke umuntu, ngoba ilungu uhlanga lwesintu ngayinye ucezu olukhulu puzzle ngaphansi kwegama elithi "Ukuphila". namaqhawe kuphela futhi geniuses akuzona zonke inikezwe ukuba: abanye bakuthola yabo esithi "nga-" umndeni kanye nabathandekayo, abanye bahlala, aqondiswa umbono ukoma engapheli for ubuqhawe, abanye baphupha ubungcono emhlabeni. Amakhono abantu abahlukahlukene, futhi lokho kulungile, kungani ukusola othile leyo ukungaqiniseki, kuhambisana ukungaqiniseki ethanda ukuba "isidleke efudumele", okufanelekelayo neze. Injongo indoda kumelwe kuxhomeke kuphela ukukhetha lomuntu ngamunye, futhi okuzokhinyabeza leli okukhethayo - ukuze bephazamisa inkululeko, okuyinto welungelo inalienable zonke lomphakathi.

Ngakho kungakhathaliseki ukuthi iphutha elibi?

"Ukuze amaphutha human", kodwa ngabantu abangaphezu kuka zeminyaka ukhona, kwakungenakwenzeka ukuba aphile nalo, ukuthi, mhlawumbe, ngisho esihle.
Ukuhluleka ukwenela etholakalayo kanye isifiso ukulwa nzima kakhulu ukuba siqhubekele phambili. Iphutha - ziyingxenye yezimpilo zethu, wembatha ubizo lakhe esiphambanweni, kuphela ngoba babengakwazi ukuvimbela, okungenani, nomuntu oyisiphukuphuku. Ekusheleleni Kufanele kufundziswe bunkondlo, kodwa noma kunjalo hhayi badukise, ngoba ezizokwehlela abantu akudingi nje kuphela ukuhamba isiteshi esikhethiwe, kodwa futhi nekhono Izinkinga abasafufusa. Ngokuqinisekile abaningana, futhi mhlawumbe ujabule ekugcineni kuyoba kuphela akakwazi ukuba kwenzeke, kepha ubhekana ukubhujiswa izithiyo luyakhohlisa hhayi iphupho.

Kanjani hhayi bayaduka?

Ungakwazi iwukucabanga futhi nixoxe ngale ndaba, kodwa imfihlo yempumelelo empeleni esicacile: udinga ukwazi ukuphumula. Kubalulekile ukuthola indlela yokuveza, a kwemizi efudumele, lapho ungakwazi ukuxoxa futhi asanguluke. Ngeke ukwazi ukukhokhela ukuze ujike umlotha ngoba "zisishise" - kusho ukufinyelela ezithile iphuzu lapho kungayi lubuyayo, lapho ukuphila kungazelelwe ilahlekelwa upende yayo nokuqhubekela phambili kwenzeka ngokukhethekile inertia. Ukuzizwa ukhathele avame ukunqwabelana, futhi kulapho it is imali endaweni ethile imigqomo komphefumulo womuntu, wethonya elonakalisayo okwengeziwe ubuntu it has. Kulapho mission kuba isisusa, nesiqalekiso, wayibhinca elaphakade, akukwazi, nje akusebenzi akusho ukudonsa. Lapha uqala isimiso, akhungatheke futhi abe, ngenxa yalokho, ukucindezeleka, ukunganakwa, iloli sezinzwa nokucindezeleka isikhathi eside. Lo mbuzo akuyona nje ngokomzimba, kodwa futhi ngokomzwelo, impilo nengqondo, futhi ngenxa yalokho ukunganakwa lesi noma kunjalo engenakwenzeka.

Lapho ukubheka ukwesekwa?

Cishe akukho muntu ophikayo ukuthi "indoda kudingeka indoda." Noma kunjalo, abantu abaningi siyibukele phansi ukubandakanywa abanye abantu ezimpilweni zabo. Nokho, ngaphandle kokukhetha, yilowo nalowo phakathi kwethu bazi umuzwa, okuyinto yake yaba uDiogenes, nge ithoshi uya beyofuna umuntu. Lesi sifiso, engasekho ukoma bangcwabe ekhaleni lakhe webele womuntu, ukuzizwa imfudumalo, uthando, wesikhuthazo, ukusekela ukuveza konke ngifisa ukuzwakalisa, futhi angakhulumi lutho kumele kube sobala futhi ngaphandle amazwi.

Kuzo zonke ezinkulu noma umuntu ophumelelayo babengabangane abakhulu, izihlobo, abazali abenza ngename, ngaduduzeka zikhathi lusizi nokukhathazeka safakwa lungile dlela. Ingabe uzama kanzima omunye ngaphandle ngokwakho, hhayi nicer kuka uzame kuphela ngenxa yaso? Ukushaya High bonke abantu ngoba noma kunjalo, into eyodwa - ukuba sithande futhi sithandwe. Lokhu yikho okwenza ukuphila eziphilayo kuwufanele, futhi ngayiphi, mhlawumbe, akuyona ukufa.

Injongo nezindlela ukuwufinyelela

Umbuzo ka-okuwumsebenzi ngokuvamile Ubamba singalindele, ngoba endleleni eya impendulo abantu bakhe ukuhlangabezana eziningi izici iyadida. Ukuze lolu hlobo izici zifaka, isibonelo, isifiso zuza a diki. Yiqiniso, akukho lutho olungalungile, kodwa ncamashi nje ingcebo akubi isiphetho ngokwakho futhi akusho ukuthi akufanele kusetshenziswe kuwo wonke amanani abantu. Endaweni yokuqala kubalulekile ukuba ungaweqi umugqa lapho ukuphela ufaneleke nganoma iyiphi indlela. Ishayela kungaba mnandi kuphela uma kungekho umthetho ophakeme zokuziphatha. Umlando wesintu, isipiliyoni, izincwadi zibonisa ngokucacile ukuthi injabulo lusekelwe 'ngegazi injabulo abanye' Eqinisweni, akuyona. Futhi uma siqaphela lokhu ukuba umuntu ngesikhathi esisodwa, ngokuqinisekile zikufice ngokuzayo, okubangela kanzima bezama ukukhokha izikweletu ubudala.

Ingabe kungenzeka lisidumaze ukubizwa kwakhe?

Kodwa okubi nje kuphela kwenza engajabule kithi. Umsebenzi umphefumulo ngokuvamile ziqhathaniswa umsebenzi imali ke kungalesi sikhathi lapho itholakala esinye sezizathu ukuthi abantu ekugcineni give up on ubizo abayikhethile. Kungenzeka ukuthi uma ungafaki le miqondo emibili kukhona ezinhlangothini ezihlukene, inkinga ngeke ixazululwe?

Man uboshelwe ukuceba uma ukufinyelela ku ozithandayo ibhizinisi ubuhle bakho, kodwa uma wafutha lokuthi wayengazange ayiqinise inhliziyo, ngethemba lokuthi ezintabeni zegolide, impumelelo akunakwenzeka a priori. Ukuze sijabule ngempela, kumelwe ubeke inhliziyo yakho e lubito lwakho. Umculi, isibonelo, ungabhala iculo, ukuzama ukwanelisa izilaleli isifiso kanye ngangokunokwenzeka ukwenza imali, kodwa khona-ke kumelwe kulungiselelwe lokho ngeke cishe kufike isikhathi lapho ayezobe engasekho akwazi ukuhlangabezana nezifiso isixuku ezingezwakali, futhi kuzuze umphakathi Ngiyashiya manje-ke. Yini uzohlala naye, kodwa uzisole isikhathi esichithwa ngeze na?

Lo mculi kweqiniso kudala ngokusuka enhliziyweni, ngakho musa kuxhomeke imfashini edlulayo futhi uhlala kumemori zabantu hhayi eminyakeni eminingi noma ngisho emashumini eminyaka. Lapha umuntu ngokuqinisekile ukuthi wagcwalisa nomgomo. Phela, kuze kube sekupheleni, uyini ubizo, uma kungekhona ikhono ulalele okushiwo yinhliziyo yakho?