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Amathiphu alula ukuthi ungahlakulela kanjani amandla

Phakathi nayo yonke impilo, noma yimuphi umuntu okungenani wake wazibuza umbuzo, indlela yokuthuthukisa amandla. Ahlale enganele: ukuze ulahlekelwe isisindo, bese uyeka imikhuba emibi. Sivame ukuhlehlisela kusasa lezo zinto nemisebenzi engenziwa futhi ixazululwe namhlanje. Futhi kulokhu ubuvila bethu buvame ukusola, okuyinto okufanele siyilwe nayo. Esikhundleni salokho, kufanele sithande futhi senziwe ukusebenza ukuze sizuze.

Ubuvila obusisiza ukuba siqaphele lokho esikwenzayo okungalungile empilweni yethu. Ngokuqinisekile, wonke umuntu uyazi kahle ukuthi uvilaphaphi. Futhi ekunqumeni indlela yokufundisa amandla, ubuvila bungadlala indima ebalulekile. Esikhundleni sokuphikisa lezi zimfanelo ezimbili komunye nomunye, buhlobo nobuvila ngokuzikhandla, ukuze ekuphileni kwesikhathi kamuva basizane.

Ukwenza lokhu kulula: ngokushesha ubuvila bukunika isignali ukuthi wenza okuthile okungalungile, ushintshe okubi ngokuhle. Isibonelo, uma ufuna ukuphuza indebe eyengeziwe yekhofi ekuseni futhi ucabanga ukuthi unamandla futhi unamandla, khona-ke ngaphansi komthelela walesi sithombe ungenza umqhudelwano omncane esikhundleni salesi sitsha ukuze ube namandla futhi unamandla usuku lonke.

Khumbula ukuthi zonke izinto ezidingekayo kufanele zenziwe ngenjabulo, futhi kungenzeka ukuthi unikeze izithombe eziyingozi eziwusizo. Umbuzo wokuthuthukisa amandla uzobaluleke kakhulu kuwo wonke umuntu. Lokhu kungumsebenzi ongenakwenzeka, uma uqeqesha futhi uphatha ngokucophelela izibopho zakho. Ukuzikhandla kuzosiza ekutadisheni, emsebenzini, nasekufezeni umsebenzi - ngokujwayelekile, empilweni le mfanelo iyasiza kakhulu. Imfundo yamandla amandla ingafaniswa nokuxubha imisipha. Napha futhi, uhlelo lokuqeqesha luyadalwa, ngokuqaliswa okujwayelekile lapho kutholakala khona umphumela omuhle. Ngakho amandla okuhlale edingekile ukuqeqesha.

Isiphetho sethu sincike kithi ngokwethu, futhi kufanele senze emakhanda ethu izithombe ezidingekayo ezizosiza ukubhekana nanoma yimuphi umsebenzi.

Uzinikele phansi ukuyeka ukubhema, futhi ngemva kokubuyela kulo mkhuba inyanga emva kwalokho, ngaleyo ndlela uyavuma ukuthi ubuthakathaka bakho nokuthembela ekubhemeni kwakho. Zama ukugcwalisa njalo izibopho ozizinikele noma othile. Isibonelo, uma uzithembisa ukuthi uzokuzivocavoca nsuku zonke, kodwa awukwazi ukufeza lesi sibopho, ungakwazi ukuphuma ngosuku olulodwa ngeviki, bese ugcwalisa isibopho ozinikezele sona, futhi ngesikhathi esisodwa ukuphumula kanye ngesonto ukushaja.

Esinye sezixazululo, indlela yokuthuthukisa amandla, kuyimidlalo. Akudingeki ukuthi ube ngumsebenzi kulokhu, ungazitholi ukuzithokozisa ekuqeqesheni. Uma unquma ukuya ejimini, lapho ukhetha indawo yokuqeqesha, bheka ukuthi into eyinhloko yimuphi umsebenzi womphumela, - lapho uzokwazi ukunikeza okusemandleni akho, ukuqeqesha, ukuzinqoba ngokwakho.

Ukuthuthukisa amandla okuthanda, ukubeka imigomo nezinhloso, ukuzigcwalisa, ukungabi nobuvila. Njalo lapho imigomo kufanele ibe ngaphezulu. Ungashiyi kamuva ukuthi yini ongayenza manje. Emva kwakho konke, usadingeka, nokuthi kuhle kusasa kanjani ukukhumbula ukuthi umsebenzi usuvele usuyenzile izolo.

Uma sizibona, sizobona ukuthi iningi lezenzo zenziwa ngokuzenzekelayo kithi, njengoba imikhuba yenziwe esikhathini sethu. Kubuye kwenzeke nemikhuba emibi. Bakhelwe ngokumelene nokuhlelwa kokuqeqeshwa okuphindaphindiwe, - ukuphindaphinda kwezenzo ezifanayo. Kuyafaneleka ukuthola ukuthi indlela yokubangela lo mkhuba ingumfutho wangaphakathi noma umfutho wangaphandle - lokhu kungaba yisidingo sethu noma isimo, mhlawumbe ngisho negama - sizoyamangala kakhulu kulokhu kutholakala. Phela, akekho umuntu ocabanga ukuthi yizimpendulo ezidala ekhanda umfanekiso wokukhipha owenza indlela yokuziphatha, engazi lutho, ngokuzenzekelayo. Ukuxazulula le nkinga, ukuthi uzifundise kanjani amandla, fundza ukushintsha ezithombeni zakho ezingalungile ngakwesokudla.

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